ROK and swaths of the manosphere are infused with paranoia about regret rape.
Regret is not about men not calling. It isn’t about her being pisssed off about her bargain of pussy for provisioning not being respected.
When a girl feels regret for sex, she had sex that was not satisfying.
I’ve boldly escalated past boundaries during seduction on the bed to the point of an entire boarding house hearing screams of NO STOP! STOP! STOP!. That girl refused to leave the next day and is still in my life to this day as a personal attendant, even though we haven’t fucked in years. Never has a girl had the slightest regret.
If a man is focused on regret rape, he is unable to engage a woman deeply enough to get her interested in anything other than regret.
Paranoia about regret rape is disguised performance anxiety.
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IMGrody said:
This thought had entered my mind… These guys must be pretty lame. Even with a lackluster performance, as long as you aren’t a total sperg, you should be ok.
kleyau said:
Yep. It’s not how you start, it’s how you finish.
evilwhitemalempire said:
Oh, so the solution to stopping FRAs is for men to dope up on Viagra and crystal meth whenever they have sex?
How about holding liars accountable for lying?
We even hold children accountable for that.
We can’t hold women to the same standard?
xsplat said:
Who are you talking to?
Oh, so the solution is to strawman?
What does holding criminals accountable have to do with the thrust of this post, which is a paranoid over-focus on a preventable event?
If you can’t even acknowledge that focus then think about talking to women who are paranoid about real rape. Then imagine your response if they responded to you as you did. “What, so the solution is to not punish rape?”
What?
Who are you even talking to?
The reasons that women are not sexually satisfied include far more than staying power. Mostly it’s about emotional connection.
Something that people with schizoid personality disorder are not capable of.
Read https://daryushvalizadeh.wordpress.com/ and http://www.vox.com/2016/2/6/10926872/roosh-pro-rape-rallies and tell me if you think that the women Roosh is talking about would have felt emotionally cared for and sexually satisfied.
Then tell me if you can understand, in that light, why Roosh in particular is paranoid about regret rape.
He seems to be autistic in his emotional sensitivity.
And what is worse than being permanently emotionally underdeveloped to the point of having diagnosable personality disorders (schizoid with a paranoid twist) is that the then goes on to project his own lack of development onto others. It’s not that HE is unloveable, for real and valid reasons, it’s that WOMEN are unloveable.
Buddhists have mind training to increase compassion. I suggest that doing Tonglen practice as a man, when alone, would decrease his chances of regret rape to the point where it should not be something to be PARANOID about.
Of course we’ll always want to punish false rape allegations. That’s a totally different thing than being paranoid about it. Bringing up punishment is a red herring and is pure dissimulation, and has NOTHING to do with what I’m writing about.
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