I suspect it’s not only about jealousy. Older women realize that younger women can literally be hypnotized. I’m a very good hypnotist.
But I find it challenging and fun to maintain the hypnosis over many years. Maybe even indefinitely, if that remains good.
I picked up my first book about hypnosis at age 12. And my friends were all willing subjects. Age 16 I decided unifying the mind through meditation was a more interesting library book section.
Age 54 I don’t micromanage the cats or my girl, but know how to influence mood. Know how to maintain a mood in my house, maintain moral. Still blowjobs on demand, but it’s not exactly manipulation. It’s also meditation.
Most guy will say you need to learn to be attractive and date quite a lot before you might be able to relax with someone you like. It’s true for 2 reasons. You need to learn to be someone people relax around. But ya, also find someone less insane.
Who is the person you’d say hello to on the beach, even though you are very shy. Because she’s your type and compels you. This is a very common story. Not a lottery ticket story. Get better at LTR, Date a lot, LTRs get better. Much better.
My girl reminds me what seems daily that she is terrified I’ll go back to my old ways of having multiple girlfriends. It’s a real risk. The last mate gave me many chances, then left, and I’ve hurt girls who tried very hard to explain their pain. Equilibrium is fine at this age
We have great fun daily, so kind to each other. Very bonded. And I’m slowing down, and no matter how hard I work to maintain a peak of my best, I’m 54 and she’s almost 24. It’s happy to to be happy. That’s fine. It’s a different and good kind of happy. I like it.
Random Xpat Rantings 
Show her pics
Maybe. I’ve done that before with other girlfriends… We’ll see.
Actually with other girls, I’ve actually accepted money for letting people watch us fuck.
Maybe I’ll wait to publish pics until after her little belly is pregnant. But I probably need to pay doctors to help with that; swimmers haven’t knocked anyone up in years. Used to happen all the time. And some ex girlfriends are already pregnant, so probably a problem on my end.
Not sure if this is just bragging, or useful information, or both. Me and my girl have great sexual tension and more than once per day sex, two years after moving in on the first date. I’ve written for many years that this is a learnable skill, to maintain passion.
Have you ever seen married people sing love songs to each other? I saw one guy do it, at a party, to his wife of many years.
Screwed with my head. Could he be serious?
I’ve had girls sing along with love songs to me years into living together.
I can’t say that romantic love can last forever. But I can say that it can be renewed again and again. And again.
Girl got angry with me today, for pulling out and coming on her belly. Was careful not to assuage her emotional pain by sucking up too much, because, you know, beta. Later she apologized for getting cranky, and I asked “have you ever loved someone so much that your heart hurts”. She said yes. She is aching for a baby from me, and was worried I wasn’t serious about her.
Drama drama. Real life drama.
I still think her and me could sell our conversations, as if they were podcasts. Not because they are clever or informative, but because they are flirty and fun.
Glad to see you have another post. Been a while……
Thanks. Ya, it’s been a bit busier here lately. Miss ya dude!
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