She’s 18 and I’m crazy about her. I think most people would be.
She’s won a few beauty contests, sings, plays guitar, dances, is a screamer, is polite, loving, romantic, cheerful and emotionally open. An attentive conversationalist who is quick to understand, she reads the subtleties of my face while parsing the words. Strong English and some Spanish. Equal digit ratio and she races motorcycles, no matter how many times she falls down. And that tight fuck-me-body! She’s like me; built for adventure and public sex. And she seems as crazy about me as I am about her.
No resistance from either of us. Just a perfect fit – hand in glove. Just perfect.
I’m going to make her pregnant, and I’d have no qualms about marrying her tomorrow. I’m just crazy about her. She’s not just the prettiest girl in the room, she’s the best girl in the room.
I had to take a four hour flight just to meet her. The plan was to convert her from her evil ways and get her to fall in love. After all, that kind of thing has happened in my life before; five times girls have moved in on the first date.
I have no way to know how much was unconscious skill, and how much was just being myself in the right time in the right place. But not only was it mission accomplished, but she really blew me away. She’s so beautiful I get a little shy looking at her in the face. But she’s a great fuck so I’m getting over the shyness. But it’s not just the pretty face and the sex. She’s a baby making life changing keeper. She’s going to be my mate, companion and super-sexual love slave.
And so this Friday I’ll fly up there again and bring her back. She’s moving in.
I could see her walking around town with a big pregnant belly soon enough.
Meanwhile the virgin is still dawdling around trying to get me to meet her mother. People are different; I don’t need a safe chaste girl who never wants to step foot into a nightclub. I need the girl who is a flight risk, the girl who is difficult to keep. I’m built to catch and keep that kind of girl. A girl who can keep up and then some.
I’ve caused more pregnancies than I have fingers, but I never felt that it was the right mother to invest in. Finding a great mother is really extremely difficult! More so even than a great mate. Not only must the two of you have great chemistry that can last through years and even decades, but she needs great genes and she has to have had a solid, loving upbringing. She needs to be a debutante – an outstanding specimen with good manners and breeding, who can pass on culture as well as her superior stock.
I’ve seen on my fathers side of the family what happens when you breed well. You get a whole family of success, that perpetuates into more good breeding. All my cousins married hot debutantes and have incredible children. My own father was really a great Dad. Some of that must have rubbed off on me; I’ll make a great dad too. And I can see that this girl will be a great parent too; even and cheerful mood, attentive and all around fun. I’ve seen happy families with two solid and happy parents and laughing children. They are damn difficult to put together, but they exist. It starts with getting a top shelf girl. Damn difficult that.
And it’s like business. There are windows of opportunities. A good part of business acumen is just seeing the opportunity and jumping on it before it’s too late. Another part is making a higher probability to be in the right place at the right time. Another part is developing your situation such that you are able to act upon opportunities. Then you get a confluence that leads to a whirlwhind of what appears to be completely easy and natural.
Random Xpat Rantings 
You seem really excited. I’m happy for you.
I suspect this is what most older “MGTOWs” would like to happen to them, but they haven’t made the necessary investments into themselves, travel, their game, and their love lives.
Ya, I’d think a lot of guys wouldn’t turn up their noses at an extremely warm and sensual 18 year old beauty queen with an unstoppable sexual appetite. Although since it’s nearly impossible for any man of any age to have one fall deeply in love with him, sour grapes.
And you know what always really irks me? When people in the PUA scene say not to get oneitis or that girls are fungible.
What tonnage of sour grapes is that?! Women are interchangeable and all basically the same?!!!
No fucking way. Women vary hugely in quality, in so many different ways. Some are WAY better than others.
Oneitis is awesome. It’s not rocket science to be in love and not too clingy. No one wants to fall in love alone. We all prefer to fall in love mutually. Mutual love is fucking awesome. There is no greater drug, and no better lifestyle.
After just two days together this girl is leaving her family and all her close friends and dropping out of university, just so that she can be with me. And it was her idea.
We made a hell of an impression on each other.
Maybe people like Roosh and Krauser are not built with similar oxytocin sensing receptors in their brain, and they truly would not want such a situation. Or maybe it’s a self fulfilling prophecy; since they don’t believe in love they are unable to value it and unable to feel it and therefore unable to inspire and receive it.
” After all, that kind of thing has happened in my life before; five times girls have moved in on the first date.”
“After just two days together this girl is leaving her family and all her close friends and dropping out of university, just so that she can be with me. And it was her idea.”
Are you kidding? It’s great to find someone to love, but is this written as satire? If you have really done the same thing five times before, maybe now is the time to realize that your head isn’t cool enough to handle this kind of thing in the right way. Maybe see her for a couple of months before you decide to move in with each other this time?
And she is leaving college, friends and family? She is ditching her future career, losing everything, to live with you? I hope this is satire. Otherwise she is in for a very rude awakening in the future, when she realizes what she has done. And what you did by not stopping her.
Hey Tenet.
Shut up you bitchy cunt.
Could you explain to me kind sir,what does she see in you?
You want me to itemize my charming qualities?
No baby,but feel free to do so.
And you can feel free to go fuck yourself.
@Xsplat
Congratulations. I don’t think in your case marriage means monogamy?
@Tenet
Xsplat is rich, so he can take care of her and secure her financial future. I am nowhere near Xsplat’s wealth level yet, but I try to help women that are in my life or women who were in my life. If they are or were good to me, why i shouldn’t give them the same?
That’s the thing about being a patriarch – you care about people and have resources and connections to really help people.
Ya, of course her future will be greatly aided, in all possible ways. She’ll continue her college in whatever city I’m in, she’ll have all possible expenses paid plus a monthly stipend, and all the love and fucking she can handle. She’ll have an instant social circle here in the form of my staff, interns, and other friends. And once we have children I’ll set up some college funds.
My mother married at 19. Once upon a time putting your life in a man’s hands was considered wise and noble. Even when eloping. What the fuck happened?
And I’m going to marry her for fuck sakes. Jeesus Christ women can be the most rude humans on the planet. That’s why we reserve a word for the rudest of human beings, and it’s called
CUNT
@Wojciech: I appreciate the congratulations. I sure feel they are in order. Isn’t that what civilized people do when people announce formal bonds, such as engagements and marriages?
About monogamy, I recently saw a show on BBC Knowledge, or Discovery Channel, where it’s been studied that people in love self regulate looking at other hot girls. It’s natural to deliberately maintain the focus on one woman. I seem to have some of that going on. I can’t stop thinking of her, and I didn’t really have much emotion left for M today, making for tepid sex. So ya, it might naturally turn out that monogamy happens for a while. I’ve got nothing against that.
I don’t try to swim upstream out of principle on these things. Infatuated? Fine, go with it and use it. In love? Use it to advantage. Enraged? Use that force. I expect that sooner or later indiscretions will happen – or rather I should say discretions. I will be discreet. And frankly I would not be surprised if she had a fling or two some day. But that’s not really what I view a marriage to be about. It’s about who is your number one. And children. Maybe it will last ten years, maybe 50. The point is her and I will get along really, really well. I know this because I’ve done that before. I’ve lived with girls 24/7 and been really happy, every day, no drama, no fights, and lots and lots of sex. Talking while kissing, routinely.
I know that lifestyle better than the back of my hand, and I’m fully confident that my new girl will slide into that lifestyle perfectly. With no drama, no fight. I’ve seen it and I know how to do it.
For me it’s just perfectly natural. For others it would be so mysterious as to be impossible. Two days is all I need to know how she will behave over then next five years.
Man, I wish I could be around to see all this unfolding! Quite a turn of events from a year ago…
I have only one comment/suggestion: consider actively planting the seed of future nonmonogamy NOW. I say “actively” advisedly: you have to decide whether tacit or oblique or passing references are the best way, or a more direct and open discussion is preferable. If she’s bright, and you choose your moment carefully, you might benefit from being surprisingly candid.
In the midst of the heady early days — when straying seems impossible — may be the ideal time to first raise the issue, actually, because it’ll seem irrelevant. But the message will have been sent nevertheless.
And I submit that even giving her explicit permission to discretely wander “someday,” paradoxically, won’t make her more of a flight risk, since she’ll do what she wants anyway when the time comes. And she may not ever want to. Happy gals often don’t.
The message (poorly worded) to convey is: e.g., “Someday we might still be crazy about each other but also feel attraction for someone else, and that’s fine. It’s no threat to us. If you ever feel that, don’t worry. And if you ever think I’m secretly with someone else on the side, don’t worry either. What matters is how we feel about each other, and how we treat each other.”
Telling my number one, from day one, that I’d never be 100% faithful was possibly the smartest thing I’ve ever done. She swallowed the pill early, when it wasn’t too bitter, and over the years she’s realised there’s nothing to worry about anyway as long as we’re happy with each other. So provided I’m discrete I get no drama at all. (Every once in awhile I get caught and it’s annoying but usually a net positive since it reinforces all of the pillars of the relationship… both the love and the openness… but that’s another story.)
Anyway, at least tell me you’ll think about laying some early nonmonogamy groundwork with this one, rather than just starting something extracurricular quite brazenly as you did with M!
I not only was explicit again and again with M that I wanted and expected to have more girls, from early on, but early on I was actually living with another girl, and she knew it and had met her.
Explaining things with M had no bearing on Ms own expectations.
You’re right though that for some girls it could have a bearing. I’m expecting that I’ll tactfully be honest about my proclivities when the subject inevitably comes up. I’m expecting much easier channels of communication with this one. But I’ll play it by ear and intuition.
She may even be open to other girls in our own bed – that wouldn’t surprise me. She’s got quite the wild streak.
Some stuff that happened could not be written down in an ebook as a game tip.
For instance she asked “how long do you want to be with me?”, and I turned the question around on her.
“What about you? How long do you want to be with me?”
She turned her face away from me, overcome with emotion and too shy to show me it.
I was so touched by the gesture that my eyes became moist, my face flushed, and my dick got hard.
“Oh! You are turning your head away! You are shy to show me your feelings. I can see your emotion! That makes my heart warm and my dick hard. See?” I said as I put her hand on my cock. “I’m such a romantic!”
With her hand on my cock she shyly glanced back and glimpsed all the emotions on my flushing face. You can’t fake those expressions and those moist eyes.
How can anybody write up that kind of thing as game tips?
My style of game isn’t what you do. It’s who you are. Somebody that truly deserves love, and a woman’s whole life. It’s not a set of behaviors or even a set of beliefs to internalize. It’s an honesty, mixed with skill, such that you can genuinely connect with someone, in a way they feel to be deep and meaningful. And that is deeply meaningful to you. You embody those feelings, and share them, and work to make life fun, for yourself and everyone.
Or when she’s lying naked on the bed, and demands a condom even for just rubbing the tip anywhere near her pussy. “Don’t worry, if you want me to marry you I can” I threw out in the most off-hand way, as if I were discussing the color of stationary. As if it were perfectly natural.
Real genuine strong emotions. From a strong yet vulnerable man. A man fully capable of and comfortable with genuine strong emotions. I’m REALLY into this girl. This is not a joke or a game. I really am.
And that’s a BIG part of the seduction. Nobody wants to fall in love alone. We need to do it together.
When you do that together with someone, the swoon can happen VERY fast.
Yes, I’ve moved many girls in on the first date. That’s a bit of a magic power, if you think about it. It’s eliciting very strong emotions.
Because I have very strong emotions.
I’m not dead inside. On purpose. In order to play some PUA role.
Awesome xplat!
That’s what life is all about.
Congratulations for having the courage to live life on the fullest
This right here, is why I am such a fan of your blog, from the very first day I read.
It feels to me like you’re a flux of emotion and balanced out Alpha-Beta, Comfort-Sex continuum.
hey Xsplat, i periodically check in with your posts. (found via vic from B&D’s recommendations) Always very informative, and a lifestyle i think takes a very special type of character to attain.
So do you still have the other two girls living with you in addition to this new beauty queen 18, or is this a total replacement?
I remember you had a 30 something and a 18 year old if i’m correct?
There was M, who is now 25. I met her when she was a 21 year old virgin. I still see her, so far. I broke up with N, who is now 18 and who I met one year ago. I broke up with N just about two weeks ago, and have not answered a single sms from her – total no contact. I’m not interested in going over why – it’s finished.
It’s up in the air about M at the moment. I might simply lose interest, and she’ll notice, and then she’ll be heartbroken and lose interest too. We’ll see.
If you think about the number of hours of investment in seduction versus the number of hours of having great sex, I’m sure that my lifestyle easily wins.
I don’t get much variety – only three girls in these last four years (four with the new girl) – but I was hugely attracted to my girls and had some fantastic sex, many times a day. My lifetime numbers are only in the sixties, and I’m an old guy pushing fifty.
Sometimes I also crave variety. But every single time I’ve fucked M, I was fucking a girl I found to be really fucking hot. I never got bored of her. We had great chemistry. I must have fucked her thousands of times by now – from once to five times a day for four years. And it’s always been passionate. Amazing tits on that girl, and at our best we really loved each other.
So dating girls I have strong chemistry with has really worked for me. The thing that was lacking was the brains. I really missed the brains.
So it seems that I’ve found a worthy companion who is also a super hot sex freak. Variety isn’t going to be on my mind in the short term.
She is thai right? I appreciate your skill when it comes to woman. The one thing I don’t understand is what will happen to the mixed race child. You will actually be more related genetically to any other European person then to your own child. The child will not have any roots either, it is not white or asian. In my opinion you are actually destroying your genetic legacy, and that child will probably marry another thai.
Today we live in a very international cosmopolitan world, but I think this will change and we will go back to blood. Anyway hope I didn’t offend you, but I am kind of interested in your view on having a racially mixed child.
She is Indonesian, and by appearances appears to have some mixed ancestry, which is quite common here. The Dutch and Spanish freely mixed. I carefully noted the shape of her nose; I don’t like the flat ethnic noses. Hers is more of a European shape, while still being feminine and petite. Her skin is light.
Mixed girls turn out very well, in beauty. Mixed boys do quite well with the ladies locally. In terms of brains, it’s a crap shoot. My Dad had three kids and I was the only one who approached his genius. The girl is bright, but not a genius. I would dearly love my son to be a genius, but holding out for a girl of her caliber who is also a genius would almost be like holding out for a unicorn. I only ever dated one hot genius in my life – the woman I’ve referred to before as 10. In any case, if I find a hot genius in the future I’d be open to have more babies from another mom. 10, if you are reading this, that’s an open invitation – hehe.
In fact more mom’s was recently my plan. It may eventually be again.
Anyways man I’m truly happy for you. The coolest part of it all has to be simply taking a step back.and just seeing how you chose to live in a monastery, go into a foreign Muslim land, go the unconventional diligent entreprenur route to find something special and succeeded through pure persistence and intention. Like here in the West, EVEN with all the wealth in the world, security, domestic chores automated through technology, people are searching for True Love and coming up short… running towards their souls counterparts and rarely finding it. Got Greg Allman having to do 5 marriages finally with a girl 40 years younger hehe. All the best man. Just a request! Give us a fresh insight on the romantic dates you have. We all want to be mentors to our apprenticees!
its easier to jump in like that when you don’t have to worry about divorce rape, that’s for sure.
How did you meet being a 4 hour flight away?
Online dating. I wasn’t having luck getting dates locally, what with girls having crazy high standards, and me having crazy high standards. So I said fuck it and starting searching nationally.
Being able to have the time and budget to jet off on a date, stay in nice places and eat at good restaurants sure is helpful.
So did it get harder locally, did you get pickier? What changed and why?
Online dating in Indonesia is much more difficult than in nearby countries, I’ve found. So many girls just seem to want the attention, but don’t actually go out on dates.
And I can’t compete with my picture. Any picture in which my face is included puts me at a disadvantage against the competition.
So lately I’ve been using the bait and switch – using a profile with someone elses pic, just to get the emails read, explaining that it’s not my real pic in the opening mail, and then showing my real pic through phone apps. That’s helped. Getting the foot in the door is a beginning.
But I still have a difficult time getting dates. For one thing I target girls from 18 to 24, who are at the far end of the bellcurve in terms of physical attractiveness, and I’m ugly and pushing 50.
Getting a girl to agree to meet is really difficult for me.
Once I get the meeting, things tend to go well. My close rate is very high.
Countdown till she starts driving you crazy and reveals her hamartia.
If your experience has led you to such certainty of cynicism, I would ask you to perform a thought experiment:
Have you ever noticed or heard of long term happy couples?
In my life not only do I have many examples in my immediate family, but I’ve had personal experiences of it.
Cynicism appears to us as pattern recognition, but more often than not is pattern destruction. We only notice what affirms our negativity.
You would be right in saying this.
My comment however, does not presuppose that her driving you crazy or the revelations of her hamartia are deal breakers. After all, we are all humans, yes?
In the end it turned out your cynics foreshadowing was not wrong. I was inside of a heady infatuation, and not in the best position to evaluate what little of her I’d seen.
None the less, I’m happy with the chances I took and how I took them. Overall all went well, and now something else will happen. With other girls.
And I have seen and experienced good relationships. They aren’t mythical or impossible. And I’ll see and experience them again. Ideally with hot sexy young girls. Who I can impregnate.
So you’re no longer with your 18 year old live in beauty queen? Why not just wear condoms if you don’t want children with other girls?
Sweet mother of God, this is going to end in tears.
Maybe. Relationships usually do have strife, and often do end badly.
I’m not the kind of guy who avoids life’s pleasures in order to avoid life’s pains.
Congratulations brother! I hope to one day experience what you are experiencing today! All my love and admiration I send to you and your spouse, keep on fighting the good fight!
Hey X, what happened to the other chicks you knocked up? Just curious how that kind of thing goes down in Asia.
Herbal abortifactants are widely available and effective. The morning after pill also can be purchased, although sometimes only on the black market. Abortions are technically illegal but also available.
It’s very strange to see that at this point in my life I actually want kids.
I just got back from spending 4 days with J18. Turns out she is only 17 and will be 18 in a few months.
My third-world-problem is that after 4 days of great sex with a hot 17 year old, I won’t be turning that into an LTR. Oh poor me.
But the strangest conversation occured; I asked her when she would ideally like to have kids, and she said at about age 27. That would mean a 10 year wait, and my first thought was to just dump her on the spot. I don’t have 10 years to wait.
Amazing how we all change. Life stages can sneak up on you. My younger self was so certain that I would NEVER want kids.
Yeah I hear you x.
The thought of kids was the furthest thing from my mind until about a year ago. Then some kind of primordial switch flipped and now I’m keen on the idea, especially as things are going well business wise.
But for reasons you detailed in this post, it would have to be with the right girl. I mean…really right.
On that note, let me axe you this…
What if one (or several, gahd fuhbid) of the girls you got pregnant insisted on keeping the baby. What would you do in that situation? Assuming she was a nice girl who would probably make a good mother but isn’t of sterling genetic stock?
I remember one girl who did insist she was going to keep it. I just let her know that if she did I’d be out of the country quickly, and she’d be on her own.
I called her bluff, basically. She tried to fob off the kid onto other men, but I hacked into her email account and told the other guys that it wasn’t theirs.
So she had no good options and opted for the abortion.
I didn’t want to dump a kid of mine into a rice field. Neither the mother nor her environment seemed suitable.
I was with a new girl last night and she kept trying to get me to come inside her. I don’t always come but sometimes like to let off some extra steam, so the first time I pulled out and let in on her belly. She was very dissapointed by that, and despite the pain kept fucking me again, trying to get herself filled with my sperm. Between sessions she had mentioned that she would cry if she were a single mom, and would prefer the dad to stick around and marry her, but it then occured to me that she wants a kid so much that she is contemplating non-traditional situations to have it. I would not have to marry her to have her raise a child.
I did come inside her on the 3 go round. However she said her period was 3 weeks ago, so most likely nothing would come of it.
Yes, it’s not the smartest or wisest thing to do. But I did it.
Ever thought about freezing your sperm and getting a vasectomy? Both are quite inexpensive (vasectomy: ~$1500, freezing sperm for 10 years ~$3000) and you’ll have total control over your own reproduction.
The strangest thing happened yesterday. On returning home from visiting J17, and then meeting up with my M25, I met up with another date that I had lined up.
She is also 17, and tried to get me to come inside her on the first date. She talked about marriage and babies.
She is cute enough – a 7, while J is an 8. J is a stunner, while this girl is perfectly adequate. With J it felt weird walking around the mall with her because she is so obviously way out of my league. But I love that feeling. You could say I’ve grown accustomed to it. It makes me feel like a king.
I haven’t walked around any mall with A17 yet, but she feels great in my hands. Slightly bigger tits, firm 17 year old body, slim, pretty face, sweet high pitched voice. Also very petite, but much shorter – less than five foot nothing – I’m sure she’s in the four foot something territory. I do like that. Even smaller hands too. So with her my whole body and my dick is relatively much larger. I always love to measure my dick against the forearm of micro-mini girls, and see how many hands they hold on my dick – with small girls it’s more than two – nearly three hand grabs. Gotta love that relative size. But it’s going to take her some adjustments until fucking is not painful.
This new girl – we’ll call her A17, is just a gift from Santa Claus. She had nothing to do with any of my own efforts. She had been stalking me hanging outside my shophouse solely because she knew westerners lived here, and she wants to date a westerner.
Thank you Santa Claus.
Glad Santa came early this year 🙂
Congrats, yo! Peace on you dude, and many blessings to come for many years hence, for you and yours. Yeah! Thrilled for you! Show us how it’s done, dog. (or wolf, as the case may be… OOOoooo) Stoked for you!
“…I actually want kids.” Yeah, totally get that.
“Amazing how we all change.” –Yep. Young men, keep this in mind: you WILL change, with the passing of the clock.
“It makes me feel like a king.” –sweet zone.
“Santa Claus”… pfft… you should spend your money ($3k for a weekend of asinine bullshit) with commercial PUA companies, who can tell you how to be a fulfilled male. /sarc.
Again, congrats, and best wishes.
“Glad Santa came early this year.” –indeed.
Young men: some of the foundational ‘game’ sites are allowing some seriously caustic shit to enter their bloodstreams, to be distributed to the masses. Methinks it’s a virulent infection. Buyer beware.
Hi, first week of january I believe I will be in your city, would love to meet up. We exchanged few emails sometime last year but I cant seem to be able to find those anymore.
Sounds good. There will be 4 or 5 other interns here at the same time. We’ll be in Bali. Shoot me another email.
This is some really great inner game stuff that seems to have parallels to your type of game:
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