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The paradox of selfishness

Posted on December 4, 2012

Women love selfish men more. This confounds good hearted men. They want to love and love deeply. They want to give to their woman, and their family. To share a deep and lifelong bond. But the women keep taking advantage of kindness, work to gain hand in the relationship, relegate the man to his garage […]

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Definition of shit test – selfishness test. Selfish ENOUGH?

Posted on September 30, 2011

The ever ongoing shit test. Woman: “I want you to do X” Man: “Ok.” Woman: “What kind of a man would do X?!” I want you to: * Hold my purse for a minute while I check out these shoes. * Not discretely check out other girls asses while I’m talking to you. * Answer […]

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Be more selfish to appear more attractive.

Posted on September 10, 2011

The game of attraction is about a congruence of inner attitude and polished showmanship and oratory skills. I’d like to riff on that topic quoting from something seemingly off topic, that Kronos1978 recently wrote: When female mice encounter pheromones of dominant males, some regions in their brain grow, and these regions in turn process pheromones […]

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The Alpha mindset is simple. Be selfish.

Posted on February 24, 2010

Firepower Like all other personality traits, once Beta has been imprinted it is permanent.Only modification of an existing (i.e. beta) condition is achievable. I’m going to disagree with that Firepower. The shift from Beta to Alpha mindset is simple, and anyone can do it. It’s a simple matter of deciding to be selfish. All the […]

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Project World Domination update #1

Posted on December 5, 2014

A lot has happened since I last posted. In summary team size has doubled, two new money making machines are almost complete, sales are rising, plus we have a new office, villa and we’re now building a compound in Bali to host our growing team. As a result of our last call to action four Westerners are […]

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Being civic minded prevents love and motivation.

Posted on March 4, 2014

Laidnyc received a booty call SMS from a hot girl, and blogged about the thought processes that led to him declining the offer in favour of monogamy with his girlfriend. This was a good opportunity to put flesh on the bones of thoughts that have rattling around my mind, so I commented: I care for […]

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Advice to women dating a man with options: cock block at your peril

Posted on November 9, 2013

Your reaction to this post will be a guage of your solipsism, if you are female, or depth of your being plugged into the feminine imperative perspective if you are male. My father took me to see one play in my life. The only part about it that I remember was the advice a woman’s […]

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Whose life are you living?

Posted on September 17, 2013

I live a profoundly selfish life. And yet others are drawn to reciprocity with me. I refuse to make any plans and wake up when I want. I have my phones turned to silent and don’t reply to text or voice calls. I don’t even feel beholden to show up for social engagements such as […]

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Make the spark between you the thing, not the romantic back story

Posted on May 30, 2013

Soup wrote: I’ve had to deconstruct myself and rebuild so that I can have more freedom with women. I definitely have a baseline way of being that you could call my personality. But girls don’t like this. That’s why I learned game. I’m pretty sure a lot of guys feel this way. When I say […]

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zionController teaches us about training a woman

Posted on January 13, 2013

Saw this today on the newish theredpill redit. It was like reading my own thoughts. The author is zionController: *** This is a guide I have used to scrub some feminine imperative imposed attitudes on the women I have dated. It is not going to work in every single case or for every single person, […]

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It’s all a ritual of devotion. “Make me a sandwich”

Posted on December 5, 2012

Men have been aggregating their common experiences and documenting them for hundreds and even thousands of years, and now in the age of the internet we do group science through anecdotes. We test our premises against experiences and compare amongst a community of peers. The cause and effect of being selfish is by now firmly […]

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The invisible hand of masculinity; not a socialist movement

Posted on November 29, 2012

I hear people talk that men should band together co-operatively and overthrow the femtocracy. Although it makes perfect sense and is the intuitive response, I’m not sure that this is either realistic or constructive. Let’s look at what it is that makes men men. Is it our co-operative nature? Yes, that can be part of […]

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The masculine imperative: example 1

Posted on November 19, 2012

This is guest post stolen from a rooshvforum comment by teh_skeeze: My first threesome was an interesting experience to say the least. I was homeless and living in a tent in the woods. I had just gotten with my now ex g/f and she was living w/ me. One night while wandering around the streets […]

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Alpha characteristics

Posted on October 11, 2012

There is no such “thing” as a human alpha. But a term was needed to encompass the set of traits that are attractive to women, and it is now convention to use the term alpha within the context of seduction to describe that set. In other contexts instead of talking about being a lady’s man, […]

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Game is not a be all you can be project, part 2

Posted on July 4, 2012

Apollo So many commentors and bloggers seem to focus on being Alpha, or they imply that others are not Alpha as an insult, and I bet in the vast majority of those cases the various people involved in those exchanges have completely different ideas of what the others mean. Some people think it refers to […]

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