Opulence. Women (and men) are fascinated by shiny objects. If you have vaulted ceilings and and an indoor swimming pool and a classic motorcycle, people will ring your doorbell out of curiosity.
Don’t be a block of wood. Most humans are a block of wood. If you practice mediation and yoga and chi-kung and learn music and read and explore every other avenue to wake up and expand your awareness of your self, then you can become a story teller. You can engage people and be the TV set. Be the leader of their awareness. You can earn the right to engage and explore other people. Don’t be a block of wood. Use your mind to discover your own mind. Use your body to discover your own body. That’s the beginning of seduction.