Ashley said: That just describes a woman with not much going on for her own life. She probably has low self esteem and because she has no money, no friends, no resources, she is only hanging on to the man because she feels she has to in order to survive or feel like she has someone. This does not mean she loves him. It means she’s using him.
Ya, that’s all very sweet. Like a Disney movie.
Oh, wait, in the Disney movie Cinderella is a poor servant and her loved one is the man with the highest value in the land. And she’s smoking hot, hyper-feminine, young and virginal.
She didn’t elope with the blacksmith’s son, now, did she? As for the young Prince it wasn’t Cinderella’s career that was giving him wood all throughout the ball.
So if your version of reality is not from Disney, and it’s clearly not from real life, where are you getting your universe from?
Humans have emotions that were evolved to perform functions that are beneficial for adaptation and survival. We love and have positive feelings for reasons. When we are around beneficial things we feel and associate with them positive emotions.
If someone is making you feel warm and comfortable, you are being benefited, and conversely if someone is benefiting you, chances are you’ll feel warm and comfortable. If someone gives you money and resources you are being benefited, and will feel good, and the emotions will lead you to seek to replicate the good feelings in the future; we like to feel good. Emotions are evolved to lead us back to benefit.
So it’s not that women love money and use men for it, it’s that women love men who have money more than men who don’t have money. Studies can be crafted and carried out to verify this premise. They have been.
My world view is created out of decades of detailed personal experience, long consultations with peers of varied backgrounds, and fitting all scientific studies I’ve read together into a cohesive big picture that fits perfectly with my views.
Yours feel good in your gut, like snuggling a pink stuffed bunny when you were a little girl.
Q: What do you say to a girl who says “Oh, those poor SE Asian girls are just gold diggers interested in money.”
A: “As opposed to?”
Guaranteed silence, as it sinks in that western girls are the same way, and if she uses the not-all-girls-are-like-that card at this point she’ll come off as a racist. A jealous racist.
And for for the deliberately obtuse I’ll again repeat – men are valued on a host of traits by women. No single trait is always the main impetus for attraction for every woman. That’s not the fucking point, you daft twats. The point is that emotions are not some mystery you claim sole knowledge to. Your emotions are simple.
Just because women can’t consciously hold multiple variables in their heads at the same time does not mean that men can’t see the gestalt and particulars of your subconscious mathematical calculations of interest. You are only fooling yourselves. You are not unique and mysterious.