This is a guide I have used to scrub some feminine imperative imposed attitudes on the women I have dated. It is not going to work in every single case or for every single person, but I have made it work in some of the most unlikely scenarios. The reason it works is because women just want someone strong enough to lead them. Someone they can be subordinate too. They crave a captain, and sometimes you just have to say “I’m the captain, and you’re going to do what I say”. A lot of the things I write about will presuppose a few things:
1. You are physically fit. You don’t need to be Don Draper, but you had better know your way around a squat rack.
2. You are moderately accomplished. You won’t get anywhere without a paycheque you can be proud of, or some skills that make you useful.
3. You have pretty sharp game. You are going to need to have some grace and tact. This comes from gaming people.
Those three things are things everyone here should be trying to acheive already, and if you haven’t, you need to work on it. Now… on to the guide.
One of the 10 basic principles of economics is that People respond to incentives. This serves as the basis for most of these lessons. If a company want to inrease sales by ten % in a quarter, they can issue a coupon in a daily newspaper to save 50 cents on their product. The people who are on the fringe of buying the product will go out there in the cold and buy the damn thing, increasing sales. This is what drives business. Have you ever seen a 2 for 1 sale and then bought TWO things you didn’t even want, just because it was like getting 50% off? I know you have. And most people have. The company dangles a carrot in front of your face and you get your things and they get their money. What I’m going to show you is how to do this to your woman. You want her to act more feminem, and what does she want? A strong man thing to tell her what to do, and praise her once in a while. Your praise has to be scarce. Reserve it only for when she’s done something good.
Lesson 1 – Sex
You have to dominate your women in bed. This means being selfish. This means doing whatever you want to her. Unapologetically have your way with her. Finger her and make her suck your fingers off. Then tell her how hot that was and how well she gets you off. Blow your load on her face, tell her how beautiful it makes it. Don’t EVER break eyecontact when dirty talking. Ever. Push your woman’s face down to the pillow. Rub your hand all over her face. Pick her up and move her. You basically go primal.
It is important to take it whenever you want. When a woman tells me she’s tired, I tell her ‘I don’t fucking care, you’re pussy belongs to me and I’m going to fuck it whenever I want” – I have never had a woman say no to me after this. It is dominant. They respect that. You can’t say this half asses, you need to know you’re in charge. Its okay to tell her you’re in charge too. “I’m in charge, you do what I say, do you understand? Say yes” She’ll say yes.
If she actually resists and its not fake resistance (ie- dom sub or roleplaying resistance) than obviously stop.
Doing this sets the tone for the rest of your relationship and makes everything else come naturally.
Lesson 2 Dishes and cooking
If you’re buying food, you have no reason to cook or clean a damned thing unless you decide that in the heat of the moment, you’re going to cook your favourite dish.
You can get her to do the dishes and clean by a) ordering it and then b) following up with delicious praise.
Example: “Why are there so many dirty dishes? Why aren’t you doing the dishes? If I buy all the food, you should be cleaning the dishes.” or “How about we trade? Why don’t you buy everything, and I’ll cook and do the dishes for you sometimes” and don’t be afraid to show your value with “If you don’t wanna do your job, then maybe you’ll just need to go to your own apartment. This doesn’t work for me”. Its really important that you are firm with this. You demonstrate a lot of value by being able to legitamately say this. Your game should be tight enough that you don’t care about her loss if she does leave, which she might.
When she caves and is cooking for you and doing dishes, its time to provide incentive. Go up behind her, tell her how much it turns you on to see her be so feminine. Rub your boner against her. She’ll be skeptical about how serious you are because she’s been told since birth its insulting for a woman to clean anything. She has been raised to be a princess, remember. So praise her for cleaning.
You’re a good woman, and I’m so glad you’re around is my go to line. I use this to positively reenforce all feminine behaviour. Say this with a straight face and solid eye contact. If she gives you some fucked up ‘did you just say that’ face, which you’ll likely get at first, follow up with ‘I’m serious. I love it when you clean for me. I’m really glad I have you’ DEAD PAN SERIOUS FACE. Fuck her like Lesson 1 after this if you really wanna drive it home.
Get her used to hearing “You’re a good woman” and if she says something snippy back say “I take it back, you’re not a good woman” she’ll be hurt. As much as feminism makes women not want to hear ‘you’re a good woman’, their internal instincts make them DREAD hearing ‘you’re NOT a good woman’. This is the basis for all behaviour modifcation. If she does not comply, tell her she’s a bad woman, or a failure as a a woman.
This all depends on you being successful as a man. Learn as much as you can about positive masculinity to effectively do this.
Lesson 3 – Positive Masculinity
Be a man, for God’s sake. You’re a man! Lift heavy things. Take the long hard route. Focus on bettering yourself. Learn an instrument. Its hard? Yeah, of course, but you’re a man so you can do it. Earn MORE MONEY and STOP SPENDING frivolously. MOVE MOUNTAINS TO MAKE THE WORLD AROUND YOU INTO SOMETHING YOU FIND DESIRABLE.
Learn to build things. Learn abotu tools, how the work, and what they do, even if you don’t need them RIGHT NOW. Get skilled. Learn to program. Stop being a lazy pussy boy slob. Go game, swallow your pride. Do squats and deadlifts. Its hard. Most people don’t like doing them. But you’re a MAN NOW. Learn how to FIGHT. Especially if you don’t want to fight. How can you boss around a woman when you’re a woman yourself?
I love shaving with a straight razor. My girlfriend was telling people at her work a story and it involved me shaving with my razor on a Sunday night.
One of the chode managers with a failing marriage says “pff what kind of person shaves on a Sunday night” she says “A MAN with a straight razor!!” She brags about my manliness to other men who would try to DLV me when I’m not even there. If you’re a man who embraces positive masculinity, your woman will know, and love you for it. If you bend to her will and act like a feminine pussy man, she will resent you and defer her affections for a man like me.
This is not an exhaustive guide, but it should be a solid primer for anyone looking to get their relationship on track.