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Women conspire to keep beta men in their place

Posted by xsplat on December 24, 2012

ImmoralPsychology Wrote: I had a period of incel (involuntary celibacy) in my life that was very difficult. It’s angering that everything that is told to you by the people you trust (yes, that includes media) is just so wrong.

And then one day it occurred to me — I’m a fucking hypocrite and so is pretty much everyone else who goes through this.

I have in the past lamented, “why are the hottest chicks such bitches and care only about how good a guy looks, how much money he makes, etc…??? Shallow cunts. Fucking shallow cunts. If they just got to know me, they’d be in love with me. I’m really quite an interesting and funny guy. Girls who do know me well very often fall for me but they’re not very hot. Some are fat, some ugly, some OK, some a little cute but none of them are beautiful. All I want is a beautiful girl to not be such a shallow cunt.”

And then I got it. I’m no better than the hot bitches who passed me over for Mr. Hot Stud, or Mr. Jerk, or whoever.

Once you realize this – and that for as much a “nice guy” you consider yourself to be, you’re really not as nice as you thought – you start to be more objective about it and fully understand why it’s important to work out, look better, dress better, etc. You might not be born with the best genes or be the tallest guy or have a big bank account, but there are plenty of things you can do to bring yourself up from the 30th percentile to the 70th or 80th percentile of women’s choices.

I agree with your point that men need to take responsibility for becoming more attractive, but only now with the luxury of some hindsight. Is it really possible for guys stuck within the matrix to even know what women find attractive?

Although I had my first girlfriend at age three and had a romantic girlfriend nearly every year since then, I’ve also had long and painful dry spells. And it wasn’t for lack of effort – I worked out, remained social, put myself out there and tried to play the game as I understood it. And how was I to understand any better?

I think the message of the incel post is that society (meaning women) conspires to keep men in the dark about what game it is that we are trying to play; about what is attractive to women.

And it’s getting even more dark lately – women conspire to create the beta class of men, and are getting openly snide towards them. It’s not just that they are hypergamous, they openly sneer at a class of undesireables that they willfully create. It’s as if their group sexual strategy relied on betas to be hungry for pussy, in order to garner attention and favors and provisioning. Which it does. Biology and evolution and the resulting socio-biology are all sick motherfucking cock suckers.

During the horrible, horrible times lean of sex or female attention, how was I to learn? There is no feedback for betas that can positively re-enforce attractive behavior. The positive enforcement comes when you change your circumstances such that you are deemed more attractive, and only then can you naturally begin to take on new traits. Or nowadays we can learn a bit from our peers to kickstart the process.

One of my many entrepreneurial ventures hit it big while I was still in the west, and that was my first introduction to success. Suddenly I was dating three girls at once. That taught me a mindset of assuming attraction, and was an introduction to a new approach. I know some people downplay money, but for me at that time having it made a night and day difference to my dating life – and everything in my experience and all my analytical ability says that it was absolutely NOT all down to confidence. The money was my local fame, my peackocking, my way of standing out. It opened doors faster than anything I’d ever experienced. Throwing around a few hundred bucks on a date because it made no difference to me (the days income was in excess of 1000) that kind of thing made girls tell me what “a great personality” I’d suddenly acquired.

Women willfully create the beta class of men, and willfully keep them in the dark about there even being another class, and work hard to deny class mobility. By willful I don’t mean consciously – I mean willfully; they make a co-ordinated concerted effort to do so, and strongly oppose any countermeasures.

5 Responses to “Women conspire to keep beta men in their place”

  1. Don said

    Great as always xsplat! Money opens a lot of doors and creates opportunity.
    Do you think there is any correlation between economic crisis and sexual selection? UE is on the path to becoming the new URSS.

  2. taterearl said

    Money/heights/looks/fame will open the door.

    Having game will pull them through.

  3. Snoeperd said

    Too bad these societal lies arent considered a just reason to use the weapons of the enemy and just lie your ass off to get some poon. It seems that you will always be hated if you get laid a lot. Not to mention people will find you unthrustworthy. Long live the lie, too bad it feels so lonely if you always have to threat people as manipulatable objects instead of individuals you can indentify with

  4. t said

    I am interested in learning more about your thoughts and suggestions for entrepreneurs. I like your perspectives on deep conversion and entrepreneurship.

  5. Bingity Bong said

    Looks like some pretty sad and half literate replies. Women do conspire, though. And it is done in a quite conscious manner, and often times concerted manner. When one woman is testing a man’s reaction, multiple women are gaining intelligence thereby. Just consider the fact, open your eyes and mind to the simple every day taken for granted fact that a woman will change her hair color; her eye color; her skin tone; alter the appearance of her facial structure through the application of make up; she will lengthen her eyelashes; her nails; her height, through an assortment of shoes; she will have some many outfits you can’t keep up with what she is wearing; her hair may lengthen by extensions; she may wear a wig, thereby going from blonde to brunette. Maybe a woman spends a couple of hours getting ready to go out because she is engaged in the fundamental act of putting on a disguise. I have seen women go from looking all of 32 years of age, to appearing like a 17 year old on skates. I’ve seen women looking puffy jowl and 28 to looking like a 15 year old, and with a sullen face. All depending on mood, makeup, dress and time of month. It has been said that women fake orgasms. But, if a woman is manipulating someone she is seeing, then there is a good chance she is faking the relationship. An honest relationship doesn’t lend itself to manipulation. There are few honest relationships. Women are conspiring to emasculate the men they perceive as being weak. One of their justifications is the idea that men once oppressed women, making it difficult for a woman to gain financial independence, or to move about socially unaccompanied by a man, or to initiate or engage in sexual relationships without being stigmatized. It doesn’t matter that those are days long gone by. It doesn’t matter that women have always benefitted by men’s inventiveness. The train, the plane, the automobile, the indoor flush toilet, it is all taken for granted. There is no gratitude to be found, and little to be expected. It’s the way of the world. Far from men gaining value and respect for their accomplishments, value is stolen away from them and they are belittled; primarily owing to feminine resentment. The beta males are the primary target of feminine resentment. The beta male is the punching bag, the whipping boy, the emotional tampon, and the door mat of the resentful female. He is the scapegoat for all of the lies ever told to girls and young women. Meanwhile, women will continue to chase after guys who tell them lies in order to manipulate them. They will also chase after men who show congruence in all that they say and do. They will also chase after men who want nothing to do with them except to fuck them, provided that they can provide emotional highs. They will fuck guys who can pull the girl out of her shell. They will fuck guys who can see behind their social façade. Imagine a black and white photograph. Suddenly a single girl in the photo takes on high definition color. Make a woman feel that and she will fuck you. Women will also continue to fuck guys who provide little more than the service of picking up the tab at entertainment venues. Women have been and will continue to fuck men for all sorts of reasons and for no reason at all. But not all women are getting laid. And some of them are desperately and despairingly horny, lonely, and want nothing more than to be fucked for hours. And some of them look pretty damn nice, too.

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