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Sexual intensity

Posted by xsplat on February 9, 2012

Some girls carry a volcanic sexual heat. One of my favorites would have spontaneous orgasms when I would loudly spank her ass in the grocery store aisle. She would also have them in the checkout line. She’d start coming within 30 seconds of fucking, and would come and come for as long as I’d fuck her. We’d fuck several hours a day. She could handle all the intensity I could bring her. And role playing? There was no role too taboo for her. Bring it on. Sex in public was frequent. Blowjobs in taxicabs were routine, and we took taxicabs routinely. She wore no panties in public, and I dressed her up in short skirted maids outfits with a leather dog collar. It was outrageous. She was outrageous. We were outrageous. A real celebration of passion. The heat between us was palpable – you could feel it come off of us as we walked by.

That girl was number one, but numbers two and three were similar. Spontaneous orgasms while giving head, dressing up in costumes for going out, outrageous public displays, intense sexual power and stamina. And the next 7 in the top ten list didn’t slouch.

Other girls never really let go. A full flow of energy never rises up to their heads and through their arms and out in a glow around their body and into their lovers bodies. They instead struggle just to get enough pelvic heat rising to fire off a quick orgasm, which will then leave them too exhausted to enjoy further sex.

It’s been studied that you can tell if a woman is orgasmic or not by how she walks. The fact of sex – be it mind blowing deep orgasmic sex, or weak thin pea soup sex – is imprinted into a persons musculature.

You know what’s sexy? Sex is sexy. Britney spears had a good body back in her day, but her choreographed dancing was not sexy. She was flailing about on stage, with her perfect plastic body, but she didn’t have the heat.

Sex is the heat. The heat is sexy.

Some woman carry around a volcanic, powerful sex. You can feel it with your eyes, you can smell it on her, and you’ll feel it on your skin as she walks by. A magnetic heat.

6 Responses to “Sexual intensity”

  1. I’ve always said that you can tell how good a woman was at sex by the way she danced. People usually laughed and told me I was retarded. If only they realized.

  2. Theophilus said

    Yep, it’s definitely in the walk. Was your number one a Filipina, by the way? It seems to me they are able to let go more than chicks from other countries.

  3. asdf said

    Alright, I’m going to rain on the parade.

    I really like the posts on your site, but I want to see you defend against the following accusation.

    You moved to SE Asia and dominate poor girls with few options who put up with your shit. This is nothing new, desperate white dudes have been doing it from a long time. Your success is nothing special and gives you little perspective.

    • xsplat said

      Would relative success compared to other westerners here mean anything? And keep in mind that getting a girl is a small portion of game – and a portion I don’t talk about on this blog. I have relatively low ability in attracting girls. What I talk about is engendering love, devotion and dotage. I don’t see that being talked about by anyone in any location. Do you?

      I disagree that romantic success of the flavor that I advocate comes automatically with location. Come out here and see for yourself. Most westerners begin their dating careers here by getting eaten alive. As I did.

      And while I’m no big player with big numbers, I still had experience with well over the lifetime average number of women before coming to SE Asia.

      It may not be terribly difficult to put into practice what I talk about. Strangely enough if you look around you won’t see men doing so. Not even other westerners in my location. You would be shocked to see most westerners dating ugly chicks nearer to their own age, rather than the hotter younger girls. And the men here are as likely to be pushing the stroller and to be getting sass from their woman as back home. The attitude required to psychologically dominate a woman is nowadays missing in western men. The skills required to handle women are useless unless the man wants to put them into practice, and it’s that internal attitude that this blog is largely about.

  4. Fartholomew Simpdaughter said


    Is there any way to help/guide a girl to new sexual levels? I know sexual awakening is your forte, and I would love to help a reserved, sweet GF reach to new heights of passion!

    Does this same principle apply to men? Surely you screa raw sexuality to induce it other girls?

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