In a full disco of hot young bodies, where most men seem to have grown up shooting steroids, this ugly old balding short author commanded the full attention of one of the hottest girls in the club. My girl. A girl dancing for you and turning you on is a good thing. When she has tunnel vision for you and the crowd melts away, that’s a very good thing.
Sex is a mind game.
That kind of attention is won by mind games.