Westerners have an ambivalent relation with how money affects relationship. On the one hand men get it that women are attracted to money. On the other they deny that women are attracted to money, and refuse to use money as a real, honest, viable attraction trigger.
And western men have a huge blind spot when it comes to using money as a means of maintaining attraction. As a means of having hand over a woman.
Men stubbornly refuse to grok how money and love is intertwined in femalians.
For instance you get the phrase “she only loves you for your money”.
You don’t hear instead “One of her reasons for being so strongly attracted to you is your wealth and power”.
I’ve always advocated keeping your woman financially down. DON’T look for an economic peer!
Would it be rude to repeat that twenty times, in all caps?
Keep your woman financially down. DON’T look for an economic peer!