Socially inept women are the same as socially inept men. Due to a lack of experience or inability to form an accurate mental map of other peoples motivations, they fill in the blanks with projection of what they want in a mate. Clueless women assume men are attracted to what women are attracted to. Confidence. Dynamism. Status. Authority. Clueless men assume women want what they say they want, and that they feel love in the same way that men do. This leads them to be easily manipulated and pussy whipped, at best.
Before the internet, a very rare few men had any chance of gaining firsthand a fraction of the collective knowledge now easily found on one blog. The rules of engagement have massively changed. The rules of engagement in the war of the sexes has been re-written by men on the internet.