The cultural differences, the expectations, the values, are vastly different between your country and Thailand. You come to Thailand expecting black to be black, expecting what you see to be what it is. Things are not as they seem in Thailand. Thais have a complicated system of communication that they understand – they have subtle cues. They are indirect. They lie. There are no “good” Thai girls – it is a totally different set up.
If you come to Thailand, you won’t be lonely. You will get heartbroken. Most of us think thats a fair trade.