No one is perfect, but what do I want in a woman? What makes me happy?
Sarah is extremely sexual, but nuts. Por is wonderful, but doesn’t turn me on.
In trying to understand who I should pursue, I wrote down the attributes most important to me, and gave them points.
Then I rated the most important of my past girlfriends. The system works, the numbers closely matched how connected I was with these women and the overall satisfaction.
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And here are some scores:
And here is how I scored myself, as a partner to the same women. I’m sure they would score me lower than I scored myself, and wonder how much. Hope I’m not totally out of it.
Putting numbers on the characteristics important to me helped me to see a whole picture, without diminishing the value of any of the parts. I value sexuality, as reflected in how many sexual characteristics are included, and their scores. And the non-sexual characteristics make up the greater bulk. Some girls got points mostly from sex, some mostly from being likeable. Both carry weight. Only one very rare person got high points all around.