As I’m getting older, I find that my tastes in women does not age. Every few years a new generation of hotties is jiggling in the clubs, and that’s the generation I target.
That doesn’t change, but my appearance does. My relative strengths shift around. I’m pushing late forties, my appearance is declining and my income is increasing. Because what I can offer that women want is changing, how I see women is changing. It no longer bothers me to pay for an apartment for a side piece. It no longer bothers me that girls look towards men with a calculating eye.
Yes, I realize that the rules are different for one night stands. That’s what a lot of guys are into, and so that’s how they see the entire dance between men and women. All about being the man that women want to have a one night stand with. The alpha as opposed to the provider. That’s a very distorted view that uses a prism to shatter light into component colors, until people can no long even cognize the idea of an alpha provider. It’s alpha cad or beta family man dad, or it’s a playboy rogue who is fucking the providers girl on the side. Real black and white thinking.
Come on man. You can use your full knowledge of ALL the buttons and triggers that women have to manipulate them in so many more ways than are just related to night club pickup and pump and dump.
You can get them emotionally AND financially dependent upon you, and make love slaves out of them. Have them sexually addicted. Have them compulsively thinking about you for days, weeks, months, and even years upon years at a time. The game of reeling women in to your world is about so much more than being the most alpha guy on the dance floor.
Finances can, if they are your strength and you know how to use them well, play a fantastic role in bringing women into your world and keeping them there.
Scientific studies have been done that prove that women orgasm harder and more often for wealthy men.
And yet with the regularity of a superstitious Catholic crossing himself at the sight of a black cat crossing his path, we always here “Ya, but!” after every mention of any effective non-game trait. Quick! Hurry! Protect yourself from evil thoughts of effective competitive sexual strategies! “Ya, but!”
I guess it has to do with people identifying with whatever is their strength, and not wanting to view other strengths as real competition.
People will defend their sexual strategy by conjuring up images of apples and oranges. Comparing the best of what a dominant charismatic man can look like against the worst a rich man can look, to see who wins. Bill Gates vs an MMA fighter.
If you want to know the effect of money on attraction, isolate the variable. Compare female access, attraction, and compliance to a broke Bill Gates as compared to a rich and famous Bill Gates.
I’m sure if we put our minds to it, we can come up with many ways to spend and invest money that improve logistics and increase genuine sexual interest. Whole industries are built around making it easier for guys to peackock with money. Table service is said to help.
However studies have been done where you show the same picture of a man to a woman and ask her to rate his sexual attractiveness, and guage her reaction based on verbal and non-verbal cues. When you give a back-story to the man as wealthy, he is shown to be physically more appealing to the woman. Just the back-story itself is a variable in sexual attraction.
But there are ways to get and keep women interested that go beyond peackocking accessories and back-story. Guys have been keeping mistresses on the side by paying for 2nd apartments since as long human society has had apartments.
Is that beta? Are the girls gold diggers? Whatever. It’s a girl on demand in an apartment you can afford.
I pay the expenses for my live in girlfriends when I have them. I put them to work for me, and so pay less than I would any employee, but cash is involved. As it should be. What, I should take years of her precious youth and beauty and leave her with no reconpense at all? Youth and beauty is a financial asset. That should be recognized. That’s a major blindspot of western inculturated men. Let’s get real. Money SHOULD be involved.
There is nothing beta about having financial hand over your girl. Paying her expenses gives you hand. It’s a great setup if you can afford it.
I plan on doing more and more of it. One day I’ll even give them houses and cars and have 50 of them make babies for me.
I understand you guys are in a different culture, where women are expected to be self-supported. I’m not in that culture. I don’t have to say “you made your feminist bed, now sleep in it”, or “you wanted equality, now you have it”. They don’t want equality here.
And neither do I. Equality does not work to my advantage. Using my vast income differential does.
I realize that guys brought up in the matrix of the West just aren’t going to have the frame of reference to be able to see, and are not going to want to see, how financial hand can minimize the options of the woman and increase her sexual attraction and emotional bonding to the man.
Women love opportunistically. Be her best opportunity. Use whatever tools you have.
soup Wrote: I think that a lot of people who “uphold marriage” etc. on the conservative side could never let themselves take the real red-pill.. they could never accept the truth that is game. And it is the same for the feminized leftists.
Game is more important than any of the other manosphere concepts. It transcends the two party system. This alone makes it a great threat to the status quo.
ElJefe Wrote: Again, this is good for the alphas in society, but bad for folks who play by the rules. Civilization is highly dependent on channeling the sexual energy of men into productive endeavors. If you spend all your time chasing tail, you’re not building a house, hacking a living out of the wilderness, and raising five little do-gooders. It’s the difference between barbarians where life is ended on a whim, and a modern civilization where society works as a team.
I think a lot of the liberal hating has to do with those who can see that taken to its logical conclusion, it undermines civilization.
This is transparent bulshit, and the ONLY reason it is ever put forward is as a socialist agenda for the underdogs who don’t want to compete.
Look, I’m working hard to build an empire. You know why I’m doing it? Take a guess.
Alphas outproduce the fuck out the so called “productive betas”.
There is more than one kind of alpha – they are not all street thugs. Most people compete financially and productively in order to get alpha status – especially as they age. And for players we compete harder and better knowing we’ll get hotter and younger girls that way.
This whole concept of alphas being unproductive thugs is the most stupid, self aggrandizing beta fuel I’ve ever come across. It’s a beta meme that deserves to be brutally killed.
ElJefe Wrote: When I said alpha, I meant someone who spends all their time fucking and seeking out the next opportunity to fuck, ie. the Heartiste definition.
DarkTriad Wrote: Except that’s not the Heartiste definition, not even close.
Yes, it’s a strawman definition of alpha, that creates a circular logic where the alphas are by definition the less valuable members of society.
Where the reality is that women are more attracted to men with greater financial means, and greater financial means tends to come from contributing more to society.
Sure, there is not a direct correlation to income earned and attraction, but there is a correlation. And working to buy that beemer in order to attract hotter women is a prime motivator for aging men to remain productive – and to increase production. The will for pussy access is the will to be more alpha and is expressed through greater production.
So it’s transparent beta-aggrandizing bullshit to pretend that the sexually successful are also social leeches. That’s just a feel good ideology to make the betas seem like the unrecognized Peter Parker underwear heros of the world.
I’m making some major life changes, and it’s affecting my interest to blog. This is for the better. One reason I’ve been active blogging is to vent a creative urge, to share experiences with other men, to be engaged in a social community.
But I’ve long known that the internet is not an adequate forum for getting ones social needs met.
So I’m working on magnetizing a community of like minded men towards working together on wealth and lifestyle building projects. So far it’s going well. And I’m finding that in person much more of what I am compelled to let out comes out – stories, new ideas – and better – in person interaction allows whole different levels of creative inspiration and fun. I’ve known this has been a lifestyle deficit for a while, and will be focusing my time and attention to this new direction; a direction of male cooperative effort within a sense of community. We are all going to be fucking rich and have regular access to attractive young women who consider us a syndicate of high value men. And we’ll have large balling villas, and boats for personal use and charter, and global connections, and on and on.
I think I’ve said most of what needed to be said here anyway. Time to focus on building up a much larger group of international business interests, pull together a tribe of inspired men, learn from them regarding areas of weakness I never noticed, and capitalize on my considerable areas of strengths to move us towards great personal and communal and lifestyle wealth, so that my own brand of game and my own sexual and lifestyle strategies are maximized. Forget cold approach – we’ll be making our businesses bring in the women and contacts to us. And more – I think a community of guys can offer more than just greater access to women.
hayesbrandon23 posted a heartfelt moan about the state of the dating market on the rooshvforum
Athlone answered his gripe incicively:
hayesbrandon23 Wrote: This is just a open question to all of you who are here. The reality is this. I realize that there are people here from all over the world who have different life perspectives than mine. But i just have to confess how i feel about what i see infront of me consistently.
Athlone: Ok.
Quote:I see a pattern with very exotic pretty women about how they choose men.
Sure there are exceptions to this. But i see so much reinforcement for this that i have to express my frustration about it. because it’s fucked up when you’re raised as a nice guy, who is middle class decent looking and takes very good care of his body (has muscles even) , has interesting hobbies and is doing something positive with his life.
you would think that pretty exotic women would be attracted to a man who has all these qualities and reward that man. But no they don’t. This is true even in other cultures around the world (not all) but it’s true.
Right. Let’s break these qualities down in order to explain this, shall we?
because it’s fucked up when you’re raised as a nice guy,
“Nice guys” are everywhere. Being a “nice guy” does not turn women on, nor should it guarantee you a decent shot at getting a hot girl into bed.
who is middle class
Translation: average
decent looking
You and 30 million other dudes.
and takes very good care of his body (has muscles even)
You have muscles?
Good. So do tens of millions of other young men. Get in line.
has interesting hobbies
Define “interesting”.
and is doing something positive with his life.
Just like tens of millions of other American guys trying to make their way forward in life.
Very often average looking nice guys, with nice muscular bodies, good careers, and positive traits tend attract the busters and average looking nice women.
…because they are average.
You’re starting a discussion about the dating habits of “very exotic, pretty women”, essentially the physically elite girls who have an almost neverending list of options.
You’re then wondering why these hot girls who can have whoever they want aren’t willing to settle for average guys?
why? because if you’re a nice guy those leftover women are attracted to your personality and feel that you won’t reject them since they’re struggling. they’ll say “oh he’s a nice guy”
But it’s actually an insult because good guys have sexual fantisies too.
So other types of men get rewarded we don’t?
Now you’re a victim because you’re average?
So what are the hot chicks doing? they’re chasing after
….rich old men …which makes them gold-diggers
or…they’re chasing bad boys who are thugs…which makes her a drama queen type who’s attracted to drama.
or…they’re chasing after the androgynous male model types….which makes her an egotist who wants some one as pretty as she in the face.
…and now you’re going to play the “shame game” whereby you try to shame everyone for not making the choice you want them to make for the reasons you want them to.
“Not attracted to me? Gold-digger! Egotist! Drama Queen!”
You sound like a bitch. Literally.
Please work on that.
and i want to believe that pretty attractive women don’t fall into these three categories. i want to believe that there is a population of hot chicks out there with good character, who are honest, forthright, caring and want positive things and decent looking man *(the heystack needles). But i see too much of what i highlight above.
…because the hot girls who don’t want much to do with your average ass lack good character, are dishonest, not forthright, and uncaring.
More shaming language, more bitchmade behavior.
When attractive, heterosexual women look for a mate, they look for an actual masculine male, not a man who bitches and rationalizes like a woman.
This could be part of your problem.
But what do middlce class guys like this do? keep gaming hard? we deserve to have our sexual fantasies come true. right?? what is it so damn hard for us? it’s ass-backwards the way it is.
You aren’t entitled to anything. Quit being average if you want to see above-average results.
Rah posted this handy chart:
And I also replied to the OP:
I can sympathize with your frustration, and even understand your need to vent and commiserate. And I guess that you are confused about why other guys don’t want to join your pity party and commiserate with you.
You are too close to see it, because it’s inside you and not in front of you, but your attitude is counter productive. And as Athlone helpfully pointed out, this toxic attitude itself could be a part of what is cock-blocking you.
An adult masculine attitude does not have the narrative “I was born paraplegic, and I look around me on a Sunday afternoon and all the guys are playing ball, poor me”. It has a go getter attitude, that is inspired by difficult challenges. It might ask “how can I twist this adversity to my advantage?” Not everyone is a Steven Hawking, who without his illness would likely never have been forced into greatness, however necessity is the mother of invention.
And Athlone really hit the nail on the head regarding your strategy to shame girls into fucking you. THEY are doing it wrong! If only THEY were doing it right, I’d have my sexual fantasies fulfilled?
You call it venting, but it really is bitching. Bitching about reality. That’s not a mature masculine narrative. Use reality to your advantage.
I mean, you are here at all. That’s positive. You don’t have health issues. You have some talents and skills. You are able to notice the patterns around you. Consider life an entrepreneurial business, and all obstacles are challenges that you can work around or overcome. Do you hear entrepreneurs complain that the market is biased against them? No, you don’t. Entrepreneurs never complain about anything. They have a can do attitude, and they find a way to get things done. New things.
Venting is a crutch that is souring your personality and keeping you from taking responsibility for being a good captain of your own life. It’s counter productive and you can’t be a good entrepreneur and notice opportunities if you keep holding on to these idealistic childish fantasies of how the world is supposed to work.
update: haysbrandon23 replies:
…i understand that we are men here not a womans group therapy session. but this “dstop bitching and whining you weak ass man, take action and get the pussy” vibe i’m getting is not very encouraging at all fellas…
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well…i see what this game forum is about. I’m sorry to have invaded your space fellas. i’ll will happily leave and let you get back to what you were doing before i trolled…
Hays, have you heard of the serenity prayer?
“God grant me the serenity
to accept the things I cannot change;
courage to change the things I can;
and wisdom to know the difference. “
I’m not hearing from you that you want to live in line with that prayer. Are you trying to find acceptance? Are you trying to change the world? Are you trying to know the difference?
I hear you complaining about the weather. Complaining about something that is not within your control – how females in general behave.
I doubt it’s only me and the few others here who find that attitude itself to be distasteful, and who suspect that this attitude itself might be a turn off to women.
Yes, your observations are correct. So is bad weather. Either accept it or do something to profit from it. People in poor climes deal with it. Entrepreneurs in bad economic climates deal with it.
Are you even trying to get to the acceptance stage? You seem stuck.
And I know that the advice you’ve heard here comes across as hostile and unsympathetic. This is a rough and tumble crowd who don’t tip toe around much. But that doesn’t mean we don’t care. Most of us have shared your observations and experiences and frustrations. When women talk amongst themselves they don’t seek solutions. They just want to vent. Solutions are actually unwanted to their process, because they interrupt their venting. They’ll actually get frustrated by solutions, and this is well known to drive the men in the company to distraction – men want to provide solutions. We are generally not so sympathetic to the process of venting – for the sake of venting. It serves no real purpose.
You’ve identified the problem. Do you want to get stuck at that stage of having identified the problem? Is that what you want to do? Is that entertaining, or fun? Or cathartic? Do you feel any less alone now?
Update: Just saw this related post from therawness from three years ago where he says:
Now you can always tell a winner mentality from a loser mentality by how they react to viewing situational winners. Losers see winners in a situation and try to visualize either how it should be the losers winning instead or try to think about how the winner doesn’t really deserve to be winning and got his gains unfairly. A man with a winner mentality sees someone winning in a situation and thinks, “Why is he a winner right now, and what can I learn from this?” That was my attitude when seeing this guy. I couldn’t hate, I had to congratulate. A lot of square guys, especially from developed Western nations, would have seen this dude and say “What does he have? Why is that chick with his third-world criminal thug ass and not a classy civilized nice guy like me? The world is unfair. After all, doesn’t she realize I’m smart, have a high IQ, am from the West, have American dollars, would treat her like a queen the way she deserves instead of ignoring her like this alpha thug does? She must be brainwashed or low IQ trash to be content with a third-world badboy asshole like him instead of jumping through hoops for a good guy going places like me.”
Hooligan Harry wrote a great takedown of the prevaling notion that marriages to mail order brides are less successful than marriages to locals. His research showed that such marriages were far more successful.
He then questions why women get upset when even the men they refuse to fuck escape the plantation and find happiness with a girl from abroad:
Im at a real loss trying to understand what the problem is. Its not something I would ever do, but I am sure the vast majority of these guys are probably decent guys, they are just a bit socially awkward and introverted. They are despised already and their options at home are so limited that they really have few worthwhile options. Women would not be giving them a second look, yet will be the first to shit their pants when these guys abandon the plantation like a bunch of escaped slaves. It seems to really bite the ass of a lot of people that these people are doing this now.
Women deliberately create the beta class of men, as if their sexual strategy of being provisioned for having a pussy relied on it. Which it does. They are hard wired to keep the bulk of men starving for pussy.
Look to how women are constantly trying to emasculate men – to lower their testosterone through snide looks and unwarranted put downs. This is an evolved group response to ensure that women as a group remain on a pedestal. That they appear difficult to attain, and therefore worth expensive and continual sacrifice.
The untouchables have a place in society – their job is to be untouchable. Without them women would lose hand. There is a strict social hierarchy, god damn it! No escape!
UgSlayer said: Feminists say they believe female beauty is a social construct and one that they don’t subscribe to.
Start panicking and using shallow, transparent defense mechanisms through social networking when someone calls them ugly.
MSW2007 Wrote: Funny that feminists and manginas everywhere rip on men that value women mostly for looks, but when someone like Roosh pisses them off, they immediately start looking for pictures and calling him ugly.
Athlone McGinnis wrote: They’re also prone to make insinuations about the size of the guy’s genitalia and his sexual history (usually by claiming that he is a virgin).
Feminists are the first to go on about the fallacy of judging people on the basis of their physical features…but they’ll be the first to shout about your supposed dick size if you piss them off (“lol I bet your dick is small!!!1111!”).
Feminists don’t want to be judged on the basis of their sexual history, but they’ll be the first to try and bring up the topic when faced with someone they don’t like (“lol you’re probably a virgin!!!!!111″).
The hypocrisy really starts to roll out once you stir up the hornet’s nest.
thedude3737 wrote: Is there an American feminist on earth that’s remotely hot? Or even bangable?
That’s really what it all comes down to in my head. I’m vaguely aware that there are all these loudmouthed hippos wasting their time and energy on Women’s Rights issues, while it seems like attractive women simply don’t have time for that shit. Attractive women of the world are used to getting treated quite well and get all the attention that their hamsters require, so there’s no reason for them to have a chip on their shoulder or feel like they’ve been slighted.
Feminists might as well classify themselves as “The Reject Pile”.
From one of the ugly femininists: “I mean, a lot of people think those 9 Uggo Feminists are quite hot because of their badassery”
Kitsune wrote: The good news is that real men don’t judge women on their looks, so being labelled ugly shouldn’t be a problem for these enlightened, educated paragons of 21st century philosophy.
Panacea wrote: i think if you looked like this you’d become a feminist too.
Therookie wrote: This is brilliant because it takes a page right out of feminist/Marxist strategy book. Saul Alinksy wrote the leftist strategy handbook, Rulebook for Radicals, in the 1970s. Hillary Clinton wrote her thesis on this book. It is completely value-neutral, however. The opponents of the leftists – the conservatives and libertarians – have ignored it at their own peril.
In my mind, this is the most important rule (from wiki)
RULE 5: “Ridicule is man’s most potent weapon.” There is no defense. It’s irrational. It’s infuriating. It also works as a key pressure point to force the enemy into concessions.
The left (and by extension feminism) has completely owned this tactic for probably 50 years. They will ignore all arguments and when they deign to respond they ridicule the opponent.
Many of the women in my family, and many of my women friends from college, will only respond to ridicule in political arguments because it is their own tactic that they use against men. It is ridiculously (no pun intended) effective. Never try to make a sincere, well-reasoned argument with someone prepared to ignore and ridicule you. Hit em back twice as hard.
Great job Roosh.
Nonpareil wrote: Wow, the comments section on the article has everything;
- NAWALT Trolling.
- ‘You hate women!’ Trolling.
- ‘You can’t handle strong womyn!’ Trolling.
- ‘I’m a male Feminist and Roosh is a cunt!’ Trolling.
- Projection Trolling (‘If you say they’re ugly, you must be ugly too, because only ugly people say other people are ugly!’).
- ‘This is bullying/hate speech!’ Trolling.
- ‘Well yeah…but men are ugly and fat too!’ Trolling.
When the best-looking of the nine is like a 3 (saying which of these hogs is the most attractive is like saying someone is the world’s smartest retard, but at least Valenti – after substantial clean-up and makeup magic, would look like a woman) what Roosh is saying is true. You know why there aren’t any attractive feminists? Attractive women don’t need to henpeck the government to get men to give them what they want.
Volk wrote: I wonder how those ugly feminists will do when they sit around with their nieces (daughters? yeah right) and they ask them about their fun, beautiful years, and the only thing they can come up with is “Well, I did write a lot about things that amounted to nothing”. They won’t be able to tell them about summer romances, or fun times when they were young and pretty because they were never pretty and in their heads, they were never young. So, there you go feminist guests, remember my words for the future. It’s still time to say at least, that you had a great time, unless your definition of fun is “Gripe about everything” and “Think about the cat” (In that case, rust in peace ladies)
I knew the majority of self-described feminists were unapologetic land yachts and Freddy Krueger stunt doubles, but even I was unprepared for some of those on the list. Careful gentlemen: staring too long may lead to attraction to the same sex. Be sure to combat any negative side effects by finding a beautiful feminine girl and blowing on her face.
Saw this all the time in Massachusetts; doesn’t matter if they’re Ivy League educated. The minute you call an ugly Harvard girl ugly, the mask of sardonic professionalism and snark drops and they instantly revert back to catty behavior and name-calling. Small dick insinuations are common, as are accusations of being a rapist, a pedophile, ugly yourself, or (my personal favorite) “not a real man.”
Remember they’re herd animals that spook easily. They can’t really help it; they’ve been conditioned to think their disgusting appearance and attitude are appealing, and when someone they can’t destroy with their mastery of LOLsarcasm comes along, they instantly turn into their true form: ugly, whiny fat girls.
From a feminist:
I love everything about this.
Not only does it demonstrate situational feminism at its finest, but also that radical feminism’s power lies almost solely in appeal to authority.
Aasaxon wrote: Priceless reaction to the lindy west photo: my Thai girl of the night saw me browsing this thread and squeaked ” cuuuute” when she saw ms west. I thought she was trying to joke but she adores that screenshot. I wondered if fat acceptance was now fashionable in Thailand until she screamed ” piggy! Piggy cute”. The girl just recently saw the muppet show for the first time and thought this was a ” real actress version” of the ms piggy puppet.
ghostdog wrote: Women are not capable of receiving negative feedback, AT ALL.
they don’t even really understand that ROK branding them ugly, means they’re ugly down to every goddamn atom. If these women were warm, feminine, and argued logically, they’d be left alone. Camille Paglia is not attractive but the manosphere likes her.
They’re ugly because their way of handling their own ugliness is to make the rest of the world just as ugly, to lead beautiful women astray, to increase Downs Syndrome odds, and to be abrasive towards everyone and everything without reason.
I’ve met women who were ugly and fat who were actually tolerable. I can understand that life happens, people fuck up, nature isn’t fair, that fatness has the same foundation as any other addiction, and that it’s hard to find meaning in the modern world. These specific feminists aren’t human though. They write articles solely for the purpose of keeping other women in their ruts. They’re sociopaths.
I’m being particularly vicious towards these cunts because in recent years I’ve become very aware of the female hierarchy. Women can’t take the red pill overnight like men because they’re deathly afraid of other women. Feminist ideology gets ingrained in their psyches like a parasite, eating up all potential to love and be human. Valenti and the rest of them are basically watching over as all women go down the same conveyer belt towards misery while barring men from stopping this.
Thedude3737 wrote: In reading those tweets, it’s interesting to classify the male and female responses. Women tend to react to it with mockery, while men react with actual anger and disgust. It seems that men are actually more angered.
Just goes to show you who the real enemy is here.
tmason wrote: Well, since the damage has already been done, here is a link to a popular feminist blog, Shakesville, where all of the regulars posted pictures of each other.
I dare someone to find one, ONE, good looking picture of someone on there.
Rawgod wrote: Yeah, that’s really incredible. It’s not just a slight bias towards the ugly and overweight, it’s overwhelming.
thedude3737 wrote: That Shakesville site is a veritable GOLDMINE: These, dear friends, THESE are what feminists look like. These are the voices who are dictating our post-modern social policies.
Head over to that site for more epic
Blackhawk wrote: What a load of spinsters. They should rename Shakesville as “The Old Maid Club”.
(Old Maid is a children’s card game in the US.
All the cards are in pairs except the Old Maid. No one wants to get stuck with the Old Maid.)
Architekt wrote: For anyone that actually saw the post, here’s something for your eyes
Hotwheels wrote: 50 bux says that broad is NOT a feminist
Teedub Wrote: Serious question. Why do feminists REALLY want there to be no innate differences between the sexes? I thought they wanted to be unique special snowflakes, so why this insistence of biological gender conformity?
They don’t. That’s a smokescreen for a naked power grab.
People say that it’s about a sexual strategy of lowering the value of the hotties, but that’s not all of it. Having power is also useful, in itself. With power a woman can fuck an alpha and provision her own kids – she doesn’t have to maintain the attraction of the alpha towards her.
So feminists are trying to get a society wide acceptance of single motherhood, and use all means possible to build up their power and finances so that they can raise the children themselves, or amongst themselves.
In Thailand I seduced an English tutor. Or maybe the job was an opportunity to be seduced – she took it because I was a foreign man she might be interested in. My beanpole girl was a good six inches taller than me and I could suck her tits while inside her. I usually go for the mini-girls, but going out with my beanpole was a novelty.
Lately I’ve taken an interest in the keyboard. I just fiddle around on it, but the thing is magical in showing me new patterns. My dad taught me what major and minor chords look like when I was a kid, but since buying a keyboard a few months ago I’ve discovered other patterns on it. 2-1-2-1-2, or 2,1,1,2,1. Start with any key, then leave two spaces (I think in the books they count each key as a half space, but counting that way messes with my head), then leave one space between keys, then 2, 1, 2. With that pattern you can improvise on those keys and it will all sound good. Many of my favorite songs improvise up and down that pattern.
And I’m learning about how chords can play into each other. How D# major leans into A# major, or how F major leans into A# major. You just find chords that share common keys. Or how minor chords like to play into major chords, and vice versa. Or how you can shift a chord up or down a whole step or 1 1/2 steps (1 or two spaces) and it resolves nicely. My ear picks out mathematical patterns, then I notice the geometries of the patterns. The brain is wired to like certain arrangements of notes, which is quite amazing. My ears know geometry.
Lately I’ve been having dreams where I feel fulfilled by being surrounded by a community of people that I respect. So it’s on my mind to try to build up that community in real life.
And so here is a dating idea that can solve all three needs. The plan is to move to China where there are more expats, be social and pick my favorite friends and be introduced to circles. And for dating, rather than date any random hot girls, to go for girls who’ve had some culture and training force fed to them from a young age. Learning the piano is said to facilitate brain development, and I think is also meant to be a signal of status. So I want to have a few piano tutors come over each day, and I’ll go through dozens of them, seducing my favorites. In this way I’ll be enjoying my new hobby and getting way better at it than my unfocused diddling about, plus be targetting a demographic of cute girls I’ll find more interesting than the randoms.
But that plan must wait for a bit. First there is a stage of business development that I’m focusing on. But even for that I’ve decided it important to learn how to network – to bring in associates I can teach and learn from, and through working with a rat-pack take over more of the world together.
That must be another part of game – cultivating networks.
Many guys seem to think that cold approach is game. I’ve heard that cold approach doesn’t work as well in China, and besides, that is only one of many good ways to increase a mans dating pool. Disc-jockeys and dance instructors and bartenders don’t need to. Guys with huge social circles don’t do it – hell even actors often meet their women through work and social circles. There must be many creative solutions like this that target women for more than the shape of the ass, allowing a greater pre-selection, and avoiding the need to step up and say hi to a stranger in an awkward situation.
I know that some men won’t be able to bite their tongue, and will defend cold approach, as if cold approach needed defending. It’s a great and hard won skill that transforms the man into a better person.
But I’d rather not even be that better person if I can avoid it. If there is a workaround that works, I’m taking it. And I strongly suspect that there are workarounds that work much better than cold approach.
From Stares At The World
I’m sorry to say it, ladies; to quote the Doctor, “You think that everybody is the same,” but you’re just not constitutionally set up to the Man in the relationship.
The Charlie Sheens, Bad Boy Bikers, and Drug Dealers of this world are users; the Real Men are the lovers and protectors of women. Ladies, think about how much you love children – yet how willing children are to turn on their parents. We don’t even need to go so far as Soviet Russia, just think of the teenage rebellion , the child’s indifference to the pain they cause their parents.
Us Men love you in exactly the same way (editor: paternally); that’s why for generations we’ve sweated in the coal mines and bled on the battlefields to keep you safe.
Feminism fed you a disastrous lie – they promised you all the supposed privileges that came with being a Man, while never telling you about the heavy burdens which came along with it. They told you that Men were just as capricious as you with our Love, when nothing could be further from the Truth. They drove a wedge between our two genders; made you ashamed of your Womanly Strength, Empowered you into positions you weren’t suited for, while turning Men into simpering, pale shadows of what they once were.
We don’t have Husbands in our culture any more; what we have is male wives, and lesbianized relationships.
Empowerment turns you into a caricature; your True Strength as a Woman is in supporting and driving Masculine Achievement through your Love. It’s too late for Sandra Tsing Loh – her final line, “men of the future, here’s a handy tip: continue to work on your dancing” is an obvious metaphor for sex, but as she ages her looks will fade, the sex will disappear, and her only love will come from her cats.
You young women of today have a choice: become cherished wives with a Masculine Husband you support – or a sex object in your twenties, a lesbian in your thirties, and an Old Maid in your dotage.
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From therawness: If a guilty person did something wrong and no one else knew, they would still feel bad, because even though their image is still intact, it’s their actions and the content of their character that matters to them. If a shame-prone person did something wrong and no one else knew, they would not feel bad because as long as their image is fine, everything else is fine, regardless of whether their actions are morally right or wrong. To a shame-prone person, actions are only “right” or “wrong” to the extent that they damage his or her reputation or image, regardless of the actual intent and impact of the actions. To a shame-prone person, actions only matter when they damage the image, cause feelings of exposure and embarrassment, and reveal that they are flawed to their core, making them feel like frauds.
He says in his first book that, having grown up in Mexico, he used to be sexist and treat her badly, but he later realised that he had to act “calm and submissive” with his wife.
For example, a person may learn about narcissism after being burned by a few, and may end up calling out those few narcissists from a position of weakness, after they’ve already been used, sure. But once (or rather, IF) a person learns from such experiences and educates themselves and says “never again,” they won’t ever get deep in a relationship with one again, and the only time they’ll ever use the “N” word is preemptively, when they see the warning signs and call the narcissist out early before giving them the boot. From that point the word is being used from a position of strength, effectively saying, “I see through you and your bullshit and you’re never getting a chance to use me. You’re a phony, a fraud, a front, an impostor.” To a narcissist that’s a huge form of narcissistic injury, especially if this shaming happens in front of an audience.
I’m noticing a decided meme among the manosphere’s critics and erstwhile allies stating essentially the following:
1. The “female imperative” is a figment of men’s imaginations; a boogeyman on which men can blame their sexual and relationship failures..
2. Feminism is a convenient crutch on which men can blame their failures.
3. The manosphere all of the worst attributes of feminism: radical hatred of the opposite sex, scapegoating the opposing sex for all the world’s problems, extreme political and sociological positions on women in general.
4. The manosphere is great at figuring out the shortcomings of women, but pisspoor at figuring out men’s own shortcomings.
5. The manosphere is creating hardened cynics and teeth-gritting ideologues divorced from reality.
I would have to agree that there are some men stuck in that mode. But I would have to ask the manosphere’s detractors what they can offer men who have been stripped of their assets and children in a divorce. What do they have to offer someone like Wibbins who comes here admitting he needs some schooling on alpha traits and that he shouldn’t be asking his fiancee what she wants to do all the time? What help or instruction can they offer men who have failed time and again in their relationships after doing everything their feminized parents, teachers, pastors and other civic and religious authorities told them to do in their dating and relationship lives?
All I see in the above is: “You are all angry and bitter losers who can’t get laid. You need to grow up, man up, suck it up and accept the new reality. You can’t judge me! Take that plank out of your own eye before you try taking the mote out of my eye!”…
These criticisms are coming mostly from within the manosphere and from allies. And I think to a point the criticism is valid: Whining and complaining is beta. Blaming others for one’s own failings and an inability or unwillingness to acknowledge one’s own role in his problems doesn’t help at all. Men HAVE to do this in order to get past square one.
My point was to turn this back to the detractors and ask them: why do you think there are more and more men like this, turning into hardened cynics and blaming women for everything? Could it be that they have something of a point? And why do these detractors expect men to take on self-improvement when there is no incentive? Why are these detractors ignoring that men respond to incentives? What incentivizes them to improve in a society in which the economic pie seems to be shrinking; the women they should be dating and marrying are instead competing against them for jobs, money and resources; and most of the women don’t want them anyway?
The response seems to be “Well, you men need to man up anyway, even if there’s no benefit to doing so.” And the reply right back from men is: WHY? Yes, there DOES need to be something in it for me.
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My tip: insist on full economical control. Nothing less. If she wants to be your only source of nara, demand to be her only source of yamo.
(nara= any and all qualities females have that attract men)
(yamo= any and all qualities males have that attract females)
I have told my wife that she is not allowed to accept money from any man, except her father and brother. Companies and governments are considered men. The moment she does, she is not receiving any more money from me.
She is entitled to her own money, and i regularly give her money. I do not control how she uses them. She has chosen to save them, and i counseled her to invest it in silver, and she did so.
IF YOU FAIL TO DO THAT; THEN YOU ARE NOT THE LEADER OF YOUR HOME.
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From rvforum Height. Facial looks. Physique. Money. Social status. Fame. Lifestyle. Confidence. Charisma. Swagger. Social intelligence. Grit. Congruency. Style. Exotic appeal. Culture. Practice. All of these things are elements of what women are attracted to IMHO. So, yeah height isn’t everything by a long shot – just part of a package.
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Athlone:
The fact that many guys put in an effort to build that attraction and become that better man kills the ideal of organic attraction that most women want to maintain. The fact that something like “game” exists at all is even more damaging because it implies that there are some concrete formulas and methods that produce better results than others, killing the notion of “magical love” that they’d much prefer to cling to.
In the end, this all comes down to feelings. Women “feel” uncomfortable with inorganic models of sexual attraction. Game promotes an inorganic model of attraction by telling them that there is a formula that can increase a man’s appeal and that a woman can be drawn with practice and perfection of this formula. Therefore, game makes women feel uncomfortable.
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Westcoaster said “Why not just be honest and say you don’t want that?”
xsplat: It seems womens brains are not only not wired to know what they want, but are wired to not know what they want. Rollo has explained it as having to do with their need to convince providers that the providers are sexually wanted, in order to attract and keep providers. Nature has decided that the best way to convince others of a lie is to believe it yourself.
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From alphagameplan: Once you have successfully established that she is not, for whatever reason, capable of rationally discussing a specific matter in the circumstances, understand that there is literally nothing within the realm of the dialectic that you can do to convince her to change her position. However, this does not mean she cannot be convinced, only that she will have to be convinced in a rhetorical manner, using a rhetorical device.
What are the rhetorical devices? As always, the instruments that can be used most successfully on another individual are those preferred by the individual himself. We all give away our weaknesses by our attempts to exploit the weaknesses of others. The scientist who goes right to academic credentials can be easily trumped by an appeal to superior credentials. The woman who quickly resorts to name-calling is susceptible to being called names. The statistician can be won over with statistics. It is the Bill Belichick strategy: attack the strength of the defense.
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Majority of Men allow women a clear choice: be a slut and have a lot of variety sex but no good matrimonial prospects or be chastise and have a chance to find a husband, but at the cost of having lots of variety sex.
You are free to both either one, you will not be able to do both.
It’s called “being conscious about your partner’s N” (where “N” – number of previous sexual partners)
This expressed denial of the idea that women can have it both ways (both have variety sex AND have a husband later on) is somehow viewed as slut shaming – because men seemingly “take away” the ability of a slut to marry, thus punishing her for her choices.
But of course this is not true, as there is can be no “right to marry”. Marriage is a contract, and if I don’t like the subcontractor, I just don’t enter into agreement with him. I am not punishing my subcontractor for being bad – because I did not owed to let him be my subcontractor in the first place.
And really – slut shaming is a frigging myth nowadays. Ladies, you are NOT heroines of the Scarlet letter.
The way to a man’s heart is through his stomach, and occasionally his dick.
The way to a woman’s brain is through her self-confidence. You must put severe cracks in it before the knowledge can be absorbed into the mind.
For a woman, emotion and empiricism are tightly intertwined.
Illogical as it may seem, one way to get a point across to an obstinate woman would be to say something like:
“I thought chubby girls like you were supposed to be the smart ones. Usually only the hot ones are total airheads.”
Now it may seem that the chunkiness of her posterior would not have much correlation to the topic under discussion, but that is because you’re a man.
There are precious few women who are not deeply concerned about their weight and appearance.
This absolutely brutal blow to her ego is just what the doctor ordered; It will cut deep furrows into the soil of her pride, allowing the seed of knowledge to enter and be watered with humility.
“Haha, you’re FAT!” is LETHAL to a woman’s self-esteem. It is to a woman what a book of facts would be to an argument made against a man.
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From thumotic.com We’re all familiar with the sort of woman who weighs 300lbs, has three babies by three daddies, and still thinks she’s entitled to a top-tier guy because she claims to have a nice personality. But while the red-pill seduction community is quick to mock such a woman as delusional, many within it will mollycoddle the milquetoasts who refuse to accept that women will judge them on superficial, materialistic and aesthetic factors, rather than purely on the quality of their game. We rightly mock women who refuse to adhere to the standards men and nature hold them to. Well, the men who refuse to make the basic changes to their lives that will make them 10x more attractive, and instead choose to doggedly pursue the perfect openers and attraction-building stacks that will allow them to talk away their ugly faces, are adopting the same entitled mentality.
The analogy is not a perfect one, because an ugly man with some combination of power, fame and good social skills truly can enter the top tier of attractiveness, while a genetically unfortunate woman cannot. … But the core value of this blog is that the most certain way of earning greatness is by deserving it.
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From Yousowould: If I could go back in time 5 years, I would tell myself not to obsess so much over women, and devote my energies equally to developing myself in all areas, especially financially – you simply cannot overstate the effect having the GDP of a small African nation in their bank account has on people’s confidence. I could have made a shortcut to the top, instead of taking the long and winding road.
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From arachnoid.com
With narcissists, enabling behavior always makes the situation worse — always. This is true because narcissists are perfect, and any problems that come up are by definition the fault of others.
For many years I believed narcissists were simply incredibly annoying, until I was taught by direct experience that they can also be incredibly dangerous. So please, don’t ask me to take the high road with people who can’t be bothered to locate the road.
I want nothing to do with these twisted characters. Life is too short to spend it trying to please people who are to human society what a tick is to a dog.
I have to confess that I still believe that. I think a person’s worth is measured by nature, in her own terms, not by joining a clique of mutual praise with no connection to reality.
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So please, when you write me, don’t assume I am an encounter group, or that I will tolerate people who need constant praise and reassurance. My personal handicap is that I expect from people more or less what nature expects — a self-sustaining organism, more interested in truth than fantasy.
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From http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Narcissism Since 2000, on psychological tests designed to detect narcissism, the scores of residents of the United States have continually increased. Psychologists have suggested a link to social networking.[4]
Some may have a limited or minimal capability of experiencing love.
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Ghostdog wrote: All of these feminists are trying to sound sarcastic and proud to make the list as though they are perfect except for their appearance, and men just can’t see that, when really it’s their core that bothers us so we’re attacking them on superficial grounds because that’s where it hurts. They think that they’re geniuses, yet they don’t have the actual substance it takes like Paglia. Layers upon layers of denial and empty self validation allow them to function and recruit fanbases while being rotten frauds. The fact that some people can pick up on this can’t completely elude them, hence the snarky twitter replies.
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From stickmanbangkok: Exotic Bangkok is disappearing as the city looks more like a modern Asian metropolis. What was not so long ago referred to as the third world is now firmly an upper middle income country.
The Thais delight in the rapid development of their country and so should we. Income levels are soaring, standards of living improving but with it comes a tinge of sadness that the Bangkok of old with its charm and mystery is disappearing.
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“Whenever I encounter a typical American bitchy woman, I think ‘yes, she really could inspire erectile dysfunction in an iron bar.” – Fred Reed
Anyone who has ever ran a website or a blog is familiar with the unending assault of spam bots your filter hopefully picks up every day. Many of us laugh at a particular bot that plagues WordPress blogs known as “lista de email”, which, through the weekend, blew up my filter with 344 separate comments telling me how fantastic, smart, and knowledgeable I am before recommending 10-20 foreign, virus infested links to click
on.
Unfortunately, spam filters aren’t always bulletproof and the results can be devastating when they fail. Bots invade comment sections or inboxes with links to fleshlights, magical dick enlarging pills, and necrophilia videos, pissing everyone off (but a select few) and ending whatever conversation was going on.
However, spam filters need updating to keep up with the latest technology as Juan the Peruvian programmer/hacker is a pretty fucking smart guy, and I am here to tell you developers are failing. New breeds of spam bots have slowly been proliferating the manosphere, ones like no one has seen before, and the filters are helpless. It could be Skynet, it could be some diabolical AI-Human hybrid, nobody knows. What we do know, though, is that these spam bots aren’t content with dropping tranny porn or vaginal rejuvination links- No!- these bots aim for nothing less than the total hijacking of all manosphere comments sections until men’s souls are sucked dry, writers beat their heads on the wall, and conversation reaches kindergarten levels of discourse.
Luckily, Fly Fresh and Barbaric is on the scene, and CSI aint got shit on us. We’ve been tracking this phenomena for months now, and after dozens of black light bulbs, semen samples, and hours spent taking our sunglasses off gazing into the distance before commercial break, we are alarmed at our findings. Manospambot sightings have increased exponentially over the half year, and many blogs are thoroughly infested. Like kudzu they creep in, strangling discourse, crowding out true contributors, and scaring away visitors. A comment here, and comment there, and before you know it people are reading threads and then calling the manosphere creepy, bitter, and close minded. Soon,
nobody will write anything, ever, for fear of invoking their onslaught.
Now that we’ve alerted you of this grave national security issue, let’s take a look at some of these Manospambots so you can know what to watch out for.
Don’tGetMarriedBot
This particular Manospambot can be found anywhere women are mentioned. Despite years of common agreement among most of us in the sphere that marriage is a pretty raw deal, DontGetMarriedBot feels like everyone needs a reminder in every comment thread he happens upon. Proud of his unique and special insight, one that no one has made, ever, he loudly proclaims to anyone and everyone that whatever topic is being discussed, this is why he isn’t getting married. If anyone does mention marriage, he is sent into a spiraling rage, frothing at the mouth that anyone would so fucking stupid as to even consider marriage.
Told a story where you hooked up with a chick? “THIS IS WHY YOU NEVER GET MARRIED!”
Said, in passing, that you don’t look down on married dudes? “MARRIAGE IS FOR PUSSIES AAARGH!”
Famous dude got married? “FUCK! MARRIAGE! IDIOT!”
Look, we’re not exactly endorsing marriage over here but let’s be real. DontGetMarriedBot- You’re a fag. No one cares. Some people are going to get married, and some people aren’t, some people are loyal as fuck, and others are going to cheat, some people will have awesome marriages, and others won’t, and none of them are going to change their mind because of you. Just because you can get other DontGetMarriedBots to agree with you and pat you on the back for your amazing insights, in caps lock no less, doesn’t award you any points in life, or the internet.
SlutsAreEvilBot
This Manospambot is fucking everywhere, and everybody loses when they show up. According to these bots, any girl who has sex outside of marriage or has a drunken hook up is soulless and unworthy of basic human decency or life in general. But come on, look around, there aren’t that many gingers. While it’s commonly recognized that incredibly slutty chicks are usually bad girlfriends or wives, SlutsAreEvilBots are convinced every girl around them is dripping in jizz and a total fucking whore. They use the term “sport fuck” and “cock carousel” gratuitously because real ballers say that in real life conversations, and if you didn’t know any better, every girl in this country is gangbanged on a nightly basis.
The fact of the matter is, there are plenty of cool, fun chicks out there with a wide variety of notch counts. The vast, vast majority of chicks are not getting plugged by fresh dick every weekend, and a solid majority of women have a few long term boyfriends and maybe a ONS or two before getting married. Just stay away from the Paris Hilton types and single moms and you’ll be alright.
MGTOWBot
This Manospambot might be the most annoyingly determined of all. Like DontGetMarriedBot, it is around to offer its always original, one size fits all advice: Go your own way ya dingus! Unlike regular MGTOWs who keep to themselves, MGTOWBot is like and Evangelical hanging around outside of substance abuse sessions, ready to pounce on the weak and disillusioned with their promise of riches and glory. The best part: No effort required!
Got rejected? Go your own way!
Game is hard? That’s why he’s going his own way!
Not meeting women’s standards? Ghost, motherfucker!
Captain of industry who is clearly not getting the rewards he deserves? Yeah I’m going Galt, bitches.
Nobody ever said shit was easy, but MGTOWBot thinks everything should have been handed to him on a platter. Women, success, you name it. He doesn’t want to improve, or try, or take any risks, so when the going gets hard… he jerks it off. Not content to wallow in his pussitis, he feels an incredible need to proselytize anyone that does or doesn’t pay him any attention, derailing comment threads with his Own Way Oaths.
AmericanGirlsSuckBot
While there is a general agreement that gender relations are kind of fucked up in America and that there a lot of women acting like slobs around here, AmericanGirlsSuckBot takes that shit to a whole ‘nother level. Everything that is wrong with this country can be laid at the feet of women. Every American chick is fat, every American chick is a ballbusting cunt, and every American girl dresses like a dude. When one rejects you, she is an ungrateful bitch. Fact.
Similar to SlutsAreEvilBot, this bot has never once met an American girl that was worthy of his sought after attention. They’re all shit. All of them. And you should expat yesterday. Try and dispute this with your own experience or the experiences of countless other dudes you know, and you’re in for a world of annoying text. One would think that these bots use all of this to excuse their failures, but that would be too obvious, it can’t be that.
We’re not going to dispute that there are a lot of fucked up fatass chicks out there,or deny there are plenty of cunts out there- that would be false. We’re not even trying to defend them, but come on, there are plenty of cool, non bitchy, sexy, man pleasing chicks out there as well. We have been with plenty of them. But here’s the catch: You have to, you know, be attractive yourself in order to get one.
AmericanGirlsSuckBot’s insistence upon continued blanket statements about American women in comment threads, regardless of topic, reveal more about him than American women.
BetaBetaBetaBot
Finally, let’s take a look at the most retarded Manospambot out there: BetaBetaBetaBot. In all his infinite wisdom, glory, and game, he finds ways to deem just about everyone under the sun “beta”. Had a
girlfriend? Beta. Been in love? Beta. Bought a girl a drink? Beta, regardless of outcome. Brad Pitt? Beta. Disagreed with the geographer? Beta.
Look, these guys wrote the Book of Alpha so don’t you fuck with them. They know way more than you about what constitutes a real fucking man, so shut your piehole cause you don’t know shit. Regardless of their definition of Alpha, nobody fits except them, so don’t get too depressed.
Not only are they gatekeepers to the Realm Of All That Is Alpha (And Obviously Isn’t), their game is off the charts, they’ve never fucked up, and they always know what you could have done better. The best part: They’ll let you know, repeatedly.
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The sphere is a pretty cool place. We’ve got a concentration of writing talent, real world experience, and intellect like few places have ever seen before. With all the writing on manliness, game,
lifestyle, economics, whatever, it’s like a virtual Masonic Lodge, except most of us aren’t as old as Private Man, don’t wear fez hats, and don’t ride mini karts in July Fourth parades.
People wonder why the manosphere doesn’t spread a fast as it should, and there are two overarching reasons – Political Incorrectness, and Manospambots that shit all over comment threads, scaring away visitors with their butthurt, bitterness, and gratuitous amounts of sand pouring from their vaginas. One of those two reasons can be changed tomorrow.
Now that you know what your robotic spam enemy looks like, feel free to read a blog or two. Just remember – Don’t get married to some evil slut American girl without going your own way, you fucking
betabetabetabetabeta.
Bronan The Barbarian! says: The problem is, manosphere blogs are like medicine. A small dose cures you, too much kills you. Some dudes get incredibly bitter and humorless after repeated exposure.
Saw this today on the newish theredpill redit. It was like reading my own thoughts. The author is zionController:
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This is a guide I have used to scrub some feminine imperative imposed attitudes on the women I have dated. It is not going to work in every single case or for every single person, but I have made it work in some of the most unlikely scenarios. The reason it works is because women just want someone strong enough to lead them. Someone they can be subordinate too. They crave a captain, and sometimes you just have to say “I’m the captain, and you’re going to do what I say”. A lot of the things I write about will presuppose a few things:
1. You are physically fit. You don’t need to be Don Draper, but you had better know your way around a squat rack.
2. You are moderately accomplished. You won’t get anywhere without a paycheque you can be proud of, or some skills that make you useful.
3. You have pretty sharp game. You are going to need to have some grace and tact. This comes from gaming people.
Those three things are things everyone here should be trying to acheive already, and if you haven’t, you need to work on it. Now… on to the guide.
One of the 10 basic principles of economics is that People respond to incentives. This serves as the basis for most of these lessons. If a company want to inrease sales by ten % in a quarter, they can issue a coupon in a daily newspaper to save 50 cents on their product. The people who are on the fringe of buying the product will go out there in the cold and buy the damn thing, increasing sales. This is what drives business. Have you ever seen a 2 for 1 sale and then bought TWO things you didn’t even want, just because it was like getting 50% off? I know you have. And most people have. The company dangles a carrot in front of your face and you get your things and they get their money. What I’m going to show you is how to do this to your woman. You want her to act more feminem, and what does she want? A strong man thing to tell her what to do, and praise her once in a while. Your praise has to be scarce. Reserve it only for when she’s done something good.
Lesson 1 – Sex
You have to dominate your women in bed. This means being selfish. This means doing whatever you want to her. Unapologetically have your way with her. Finger her and make her suck your fingers off. Then tell her how hot that was and how well she gets you off. Blow your load on her face, tell her how beautiful it makes it. Don’t EVER break eyecontact when dirty talking. Ever. Push your woman’s face down to the pillow. Rub your hand all over her face. Pick her up and move her. You basically go primal.
It is important to take it whenever you want. When a woman tells me she’s tired, I tell her ‘I don’t fucking care, you’re pussy belongs to me and I’m going to fuck it whenever I want” – I have never had a woman say no to me after this. It is dominant. They respect that. You can’t say this half asses, you need to know you’re in charge. Its okay to tell her you’re in charge too. “I’m in charge, you do what I say, do you understand? Say yes” She’ll say yes.
If she actually resists and its not fake resistance (ie- dom sub or roleplaying resistance) than obviously stop.
Doing this sets the tone for the rest of your relationship and makes everything else come naturally.
Lesson 2 Dishes and cooking
If you’re buying food, you have no reason to cook or clean a damned thing unless you decide that in the heat of the moment, you’re going to cook your favourite dish.
You can get her to do the dishes and clean by a) ordering it and then b) following up with delicious praise.
Example: “Why are there so many dirty dishes? Why aren’t you doing the dishes? If I buy all the food, you should be cleaning the dishes.” or “How about we trade? Why don’t you buy everything, and I’ll cook and do the dishes for you sometimes” and don’t be afraid to show your value with “If you don’t wanna do your job, then maybe you’ll just need to go to your own apartment. This doesn’t work for me”. Its really important that you are firm with this. You demonstrate a lot of value by being able to legitamately say this. Your game should be tight enough that you don’t care about her loss if she does leave, which she might.
When she caves and is cooking for you and doing dishes, its time to provide incentive. Go up behind her, tell her how much it turns you on to see her be so feminine. Rub your boner against her. She’ll be skeptical about how serious you are because she’s been told since birth its insulting for a woman to clean anything. She has been raised to be a princess, remember. So praise her for cleaning.
You’re a good woman, and I’m so glad you’re around is my go to line. I use this to positively reenforce all feminine behaviour. Say this with a straight face and solid eye contact. If she gives you some fucked up ‘did you just say that’ face, which you’ll likely get at first, follow up with ‘I’m serious. I love it when you clean for me. I’m really glad I have you’ DEAD PAN SERIOUS FACE. Fuck her like Lesson 1 after this if you really wanna drive it home.
Get her used to hearing “You’re a good woman” and if she says something snippy back say “I take it back, you’re not a good woman” she’ll be hurt. As much as feminism makes women not want to hear ‘you’re a good woman’, their internal instincts make them DREAD hearing ‘you’re NOT a good woman’. This is the basis for all behaviour modifcation. If she does not comply, tell her she’s a bad woman, or a failure as a a woman.
This all depends on you being successful as a man. Learn as much as you can about positive masculinity to effectively do this.
Lesson 3 – Positive Masculinity
Be a man, for God’s sake. You’re a man! Lift heavy things. Take the long hard route. Focus on bettering yourself. Learn an instrument. Its hard? Yeah, of course, but you’re a man so you can do it. Earn MORE MONEY and STOP SPENDING frivolously. MOVE MOUNTAINS TO MAKE THE WORLD AROUND YOU INTO SOMETHING YOU FIND DESIRABLE.
Learn to build things. Learn abotu tools, how the work, and what they do, even if you don’t need them RIGHT NOW. Get skilled. Learn to program. Stop being a lazy pussy boy slob. Go game, swallow your pride. Do squats and deadlifts. Its hard. Most people don’t like doing them. But you’re a MAN NOW. Learn how to FIGHT. Especially if you don’t want to fight. How can you boss around a woman when you’re a woman yourself?
I love shaving with a straight razor. My girlfriend was telling people at her work a story and it involved me shaving with my razor on a Sunday night.
One of the chode managers with a failing marriage says “pff what kind of person shaves on a Sunday night” she says “A MAN with a straight razor!!” She brags about my manliness to other men who would try to DLV me when I’m not even there. If you’re a man who embraces positive masculinity, your woman will know, and love you for it. If you bend to her will and act like a feminine pussy man, she will resent you and defer her affections for a man like me.
This is not an exhaustive guide, but it should be a solid primer for anyone looking to get their relationship on track.
The story below is from gringoed
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Last week I experimented with posting an ad in the newspaper looking for students to help me with my spanish, and received over 70 responses, about 75% female.
The ad in La Voz, the biggest newspaper in Cordoba. It cost me $10. I met with 5 of them, after looking up all the emails on facebook, and chose the top 2. Both are great teachers, into me, and cheap. One of them already wants to introduce me to her friends.
Today I just submitted a new ad looking for females who want to be models age 18-28, and to send me a picture.
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About 40 responses so far with tons of pictures. Lots of 7′s and 8′s, about five 9′s.
Right now, I still have not decided what to do with all these wanna-be models!
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Weapons: The two that I chose are a 7 and an 8, ages 28 and 20 respectively. I turned down another 8 because she seemed aloof, not an exceptional teacher, and not really into me. My original plan was the get in with their friends because a warm approach does WONDERS here. However, the 20 y/o is fucking perfect for me. A 10/10 on personality/outlook/etc so I’m going to use everything that I know about Cordoba game on her. Unfortunately, that means I’ll still be building comfort a month from now.
The problem is that I have over 50 replies from good looking girls, it would take me forever to coordinate and meet with all of them. A possible scenario is to have them all come to one event (classy of course) with a professional photographer and screen them out for looks and interest in one shot.
Yes, drinks are definitely key. Champagne? I think the right angle here is to project myself as a super high status Yankee, and that by knowing a lot of movers and shakers I can give them a pretty sweet ride.
As of right now I have 54 email responses from girls with pictures. 45 are hot. The time to strike is now!!
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Update on the Cordoba models project:
I reserved a large rooftop on 4/24/10 for a big party to meet and do basic photos of the models in dresses and bikinis.
The plan now is to having this lavish party with catering, champagne, etc. to put across this image of swank LA living. I plan to hire a professional photo crew to take professional-quality digital photos of the girls that I can later give to the girls for their own personal use. Most of the photos I was emailed (about 60 emails with photos in total) were amateur so this will definitely provide them with value.
Meanwhile, I plan to have them fill out short questionnaires to find out exactly what they’re willing to do, for example:
Semi-nude photo shoots
Nude photo shoots
Nude video shoots
Masturbating video shoots
Pornography
I’m planning for at least 25 to show up.
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Roosh Wrote: This plan works the access problem (of meeting hot girls).
Curious what your strategy is for sealing the deal with them.
This is something that I’ve been thinking about.
I think there are three potential directions with this:
1. Go the sleazy route and imply that banging me would help their career chances tremendously. There are a lot of questions with this, such as how early and how obvious should I make this implication?
2. Run legit game. This has even more question marks b/c this is Argentina.
3. Pay them for porn
I’m thinking of experimenting with all 3. Ideas?
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Here’s what happened at the models party we had yesterday. I had such a great time, I’m not going to forget this for a long long time!
It turned out that 5/1 is a national holiday here in Argentina where nobody works. That made finding a photographer and beverage service much harder to find, but at the last minute we found them so it all worked out. Litererally a couple hours before it starting, I had doubts that either would show up.
The layout: The rooftop had an indoor and outdoor area. We decided to set up the photographer outdoors and have the drinks/social indoors. We had perfect weather. For drinks, we had 4 different options– all alcoholic including champagne. We started with chill music then upped the tempo as the night and alcoholic buzz went up. Total cost of everything (ad, drinks, photographer, rooftop, pizza) about 650 pesos or about $170 dollars.
The turnout: I had 15 RSVP, and 8 showed up. Some brought friends so the total turnout was about 12. This turned out to be a pretty good number. On the other side of the table was me (the head of the ficticious modeling agency), Partytime (my top talent scout), and my Argie friend (my advisor and business partner for operations in Argentina).
People started arriving at 9pm. Some were hot, some were just ok. At 10pm I gave a speech in English and my Argie friend translated. I explained who we were (unfortunately some lies scattered in) and what we were doing that night. We wanted to take the girls to a nearby club after we were done with the pictures.
After the speech we started taking photos of the girls individually while posing. To stay in character, I coached the models on what to do as well as the photographer. I’m proud to say we got some pretty good shots!
Meanwhile, Partytime sat down with them individually to get all their information and what kind of work they are willing to do (film, photo, nude, etc). He also buttered them up by saying to each of them that they are special, better than the rest, and they should come to the club with us. He did a great job because almost all of them came with us to the club.
By the time we were done with photos, everybody was nicely buzzed and a couple of them were flat out drunk. After a little pizza, we walked to the club and lost a couple along the way. When we arrived, we still had 9 girls and got in easily.
Upon entering it was pretty clear there were 3 chicks who were really into us, so I focused on the top two, an 18 y/o and a 20 y/o (cuter). The third was busty as hell and not my type at all.
Long story short, about an hour later, my Argie friend and I take back the three chicks to my apartment. My Argie friend takes the busty one somewhere in the building, while I take the other two into my apartment. On the way up, I make out with both of them. Once we’re inside, we pop open some wine and start up a hookah. Partytime calls me to see what’s going on, then comes over.
The 18 y/o is so clearly down, so even though I was mostly making out with the 20 y/o in the apartment, I take the 18 y/o to my bedroom and bang her. She is a horrible lay, worst of my life. 18 year old chicks are definitely overrated.
Partytime banged the same chick in the morning.
The 20 y/o slept in my bed but wasn’t down to fuck.
The busty chick I’m pretty sure banged my Argie friend. He certainly could have if he wanted to.
This is not the end. There is more potential in this group. I’m planning to have the models come to my apartment individually to get copies of their photos and discuss what they can do to improve. The other girls clearly saw us getting gamed and I think they realize they need to step up their game. There may also be good potential with the cute 20 y/o, after all she did make out and sleep in my bed!
Overall, everybody had a blast. All the girls, too. I’d like to try this in other places, such as Eastern Europe. My Argie friend was so pumped that he is seriously considering doing talent recruitment in his spare time here in Cordoba.
Good times!!!!!
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doriangray Wrote: Was there actually a chance for these girls to make something out of these photos or was it all just lies to get them into bed?
I wanted to make sure it was as legit as possible, so heres the value (besides fun, drinks, etc) we gave them:
1. Copies of the photos of them. Most of them didn’t have professional quality photos to self-promote.
2. For the ones that are interested in nude photography, I’m planning to offer them a paid opportunity.
3. Experience with posing and professional advice. Some of the girls had never done a photo shoot before.
4. We now have contacts with some other agencies here in Cordoba, and we’ll pass them along to them if it makes sense.
We never implied in any way that they needed to bang us to improve their chances. The girls were legitimately attracted to us– part of the reason is they were just having more fun that night with us than they’d had in a long time!
Partytime wrote: I want to add some of my thoughts to GringoEd’s excellent description of the night.
First of all, we had an absolute BLAST. Even if we had not gotten laid, it was so much fun!!! (btw I talked to our Argentine friend. he got laid too, and its a hilarious story. I will tell it shortly)Thumb upThumb upThumb up
So let me start out by saying that if you want to attract wild girls, put out a modeling ad!!! These girls were definitely more wild than the average girl. Not all of them, of course, but many of them.
To be honest I was a little pessimistic about how this would turn out. We had invited them over at 9pm. i thought there was a good chance that they would show up, have their pictures taken, not drink much alcohol, and go home at 11 to eat dinner (thats dinner time here in AR). But hell no!!! Aspiring models love to party!!! These girl drank, and boy did they drink. They finished almost all our alcohol! And as the night went on my smile got bigger and bigger!!! Around 1:30am we ordered pizzas and shortly after hit the club: 9 girls and 3 guys. No need to mention we whipped right past the line. Cool
Now there is a big difference between girls you cold approach in a club, who don’t know you from any other schmo in the club, and girls who just did a professional photoshoot on your snazzy rooftop, who know they are in competition with other hotties, who see you as high-status Americans in the modeling agency, who are drinking your champagne and high end liquor. There was a totally different vibe with these girls. Some of them were really all over us. And its really funny that one of the girls mentioned how the other girls were acting like sluts. Girls are so jealous. They totally proliferate the men/women double standard.
So as GringoEd mentioned, my role was to sit down with them one-on-one durring the photoshoot, take down their info, and have a chat with them.
I told every girl that I thought she had great oppertunities, and to make sure to come to the club after the photoshoot. I told them all not to tell the other girls because not all of them are “model quality” and I dont want their feeling so get hurt. hehehehe. Evil Well, just about all of them joined us to the club.
Ok, so now on to the story about our Argentine friend and the girl he banged that night. So at the club shes all over him and he tells her “lets go”. She asks where (as if she didnt know. hehe). He tells her not to worry about where, takes her hand and takes her. As soon as he gets her into his apartment he takes off his pants. This is in the living room, he doesnt even get to the bedroom. he sticks his dick right near her mouth and tells her to start. Shes asks “start what?” (again as if she doesnt know. hehehe). He says “start sucking” and she does.hehehe! He bangs her on the couch. After he finishes she he strait up tells her to get out. hehe sometimes hes a bitch when hes drunk. She wants to stay the night, but he makes her leave. Man, was I cracking up as he told me this story!!!
All together a lot of fun!
CLR wrote: spend 100 dollars on victorias secret gift bags (everywhere I have been in the world women LOVE V. Secret stuff). Right now next to me I have some left overs a few body sprays, lotions, and lip gloss, and panties, VS bags and tissue paper…. each bag costs about 10 bucks.
I give them away when girls are good (reinforce behavior I like) for birthdays etc…. Costs very little but looks like its expensive. Remember most VS stuff is twice the retail price where ever you go internationally. Plus I make my own gift bags, I do the whole, buy 4 for this special price, and pick what I buy based off the deal at the moment. Buy in bulk, post your add with a little mystery, Sponsered by victoria secret, top 10 girls get a victoria secret gift bag. The girls will work that much harder to be in the top 10 Smile Plus the sponsored part makes you look more legit.
I guarantee you will get more responses. Just make sure when they sign in they see all those pink bags lined up…. that’ll get the juices flowing.
From a woman’s honest perspective, ALL men are judged on this scientific, UvT Scale of desirability including FOUR main factors:
1. Money – This one speaks for itself. Most women will just come out and admit that loot gets them wet. Some lie and talk about the “nice things” they like that just so happen to require money they don’t have! AHNT In the end, it’s ALL about the dough.
This is such a given that I won’t even bother to elaborate any further.
2. Looks - Don’t be fooled, women are just as superficial as men are, but their superficiality manifests itself in different ways. Most babes just get hot and heavy for a good looking guy such that all of their “rules” go out the window. No hit on the first date, they hit. No back door, it’s open season. No playing the roll of the side hizzie, he’s got another family in Virginia. I mean, they let cats run all over them. I know, I know, many babes are seen with worse looking men, so they must be about substance. WRONG. First, we have the 3 other factors
that trump good looks. But secondly, womens’ superficiality can be so complex that it trumps good common sense. Like have you ever met a chick that is so insecure and so narcissistic that she actually dates a ugly dude so she can feel prettier? Crazy but true. She’s still superficial alright, just crazy as a bat and well aware of what else he can do for her.
3. Juice – Now this is something that is highly underrated because it’s hard to isolate. Unlike Money and Looks, Juice is hard to quantify. College provides the best example. For some, a guy’s affiliation in a frat makes him suddenly more desirable. That’s why you see babes flocking to cats once they go from random dude to frat guy. For
others, playing on a sports team, like that cat who walked on for Duke Basketball but never played? Right, there’s something about recounting that conversation he had with Grant Hill, Chris Duhon, Carlos Boozer or JJ Redick that brings out Juice chicks want. All he’s got is a tacit affiliation to real ballers, but it’s good enough. After all, he plays for the Duke Basketball team, right? It all just depends. For some low cats in our society, a “good man with a job” is Juice enough. One thing I know, Juice matters and it’s good even independent of Looks and Money.
4. Charisma – Ok, I’m not so Machiavellian to believe that personality doesn’t matter at all. It does. Of course, among the four factors, it matters least, but it does matter. We all know or have seen
that dude who is relatively bad looking, broke, juiceless, jobless and just overall objectively terrible, with some babe way above his pay grade.
If you haven’t seen this dude, tune into Jerry Springer any time to see these heifers fighting over him. ha He’s got charisma or to put it in street vernacular, “Game”. Game matters, a lot. Wit, humor, listening skills or just plain persistence. Call it what you want, but he’s got it and it only helps.
Fair enough. No more jabber. let’s get to…
The Women’s List 1-10:
10. The Objectively Attractive, Monied Cat with major Juice and Real Charisma.
You can throw Will Smith in this group as well. Let’s face it, these cats can do no wrong in the eyes of women. They’ve literally got it all and can pretty much have what the want, when the want it.
9. Super Looted Guy -
I know, I know, “you couldn’t pay me a million dollars to sleep with Bill Gates”. I know, but how about 5,000 million dollars? No? Ok, 10,000 million dollars? No? Ok, now I know you’re a damn lie. Bill Gates is worth something like $50 Billion. Don’t tell me that doesn’t matter to you.
Plenty of you chicks will F a cat for backstage passes to the Timberlake concert. Who do you think you’re fooling? Be very clear ladies, he IS a 9 because money trumps everything on the board EXCEPT a dude who has EVERYTHING plus more money than you can fathom (ie. Hollywood A Listers). Sure, you’d take Russell Crowe over Bill Gates. But you wouldn’t take Erwin from Accounting over him. Not a chance. Sorry, I didn’t make the rules. God did.
8. The Good Looking Cat with Juice, Loot and Swagger that comes from it
Do you see that smug look on his face? Ha That’s the “woman, get in this car” face. Yep, “Big” from Sex and the City is completely representative of this guy, but we’ve all seen him in real life. He’s got that swagger, he’s got that loot and he’s got that lady. Check that, he’s got them ladies and doesn’t mind treating them like shat because he knows he’s holding ALL the cards. He’s comfortable with his position, because aside from high rollers with more loot and better looks, he’s WINNING. There are mini versions of this guy for sure. Bankers, Doctors, Lawyers, Entrepreneurs and even Trust Fund Babies. If you can’t recognize them as solid 8′s, then you just don’t know this game.
7. Good Looking Regular Cat with potential for juice, ends mixed with a little bit of game
Lucky for us, this guy has already been personified by the show “The Bachelor.” They only let cats like him on the show. He’s also known as the “good guy” that all these broads claim to want. Believe me, when they say “good guy,” they mean “Good Looking guy that I won’t starve with.”
Guys, if you truly got your sh*t together, meaning work out, stylist and rhetoric, would you be able to reasonably go on “The Bachelor?” No? Flavor of Love at least? Ha If the answer is no, then sorry, you ain’t no Seven homey…
6. Solid Dude – Moderately Successful or Moderately Good looking and cool or Non fat, Non offensive, tall cat with no obvious imperfections or Very Juicy cat with next to nothing else who knows all the house drug dealers in the clubs
OK, in all honestly, Leslie is probably above the “solid cat” level. But he’s crafted in the solid cat mold and is representative of him. His look is definitely at the 6 and even that might be generous.
5. Basic Cat – Non Offensive, doesn’t want no trouble, will run into some tail if it’s there. Under appreciated by the money grubbing, juice seeking, non forward looking female.
Again, this is the woman’s scale, not mine. The truth is, most babes didn’t want no parts of Barack before he started making his speeches and winning elections. Prior to that he got no play, even though he should have. Kanye talked about it in Gold Digger:
“He gone make it into a Benz out of that Dotson, he got that envision baby, look in his eyes, this week he’s moppin’ floors, next week it’s the fries”
Which of course is a great reference to Coming to America. Anyway, the Barack of old was a SOLID 5 and was getting ZERO run from the honeys. Hell, even Michelle iced BO out for a clean 6 months before he got a first date. Sad but true. And there are 5 level, pre blow up Baracks out there now…but yall don’t want em. I know.
4. Slightly low, but not terribly offensive, doesn’t really get it, table scraps guy
3. Even Still Lower table scraps guy without the upgrades of a 4
And yes that is just the same dude, only fat. FULL step down.
2. The terrible cat who is not good looking, no loot, no charisma, BUT thinks he’s got juice
The lesson here is that women would rather be bored to death than embarrassed to death. Nobody in this country would ride with this guy and believe me, he does exist. ha
1. The No loot, no juice, out of luck, out of time, out of gimmicks dude
It’s a cold harsh world and that’s why my man is at 1. No loot is a no go. And Seinfeld said it best, “You don’t see any handsome homeless.”
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The author doesn’t rank game, or the charismatic arts high on his list, but let’s ignore the relative rankings of the attractive traits. He makes an imposing point. To play in the big leagues or to overcome big deficits or to have long term staying power in the dating game, a guy is going to need to develop juice.
Most of us are already trying to develop money. If making money were easy we’d all be in the top 5%.
Money and juice often go hand in hand. It’s said that the value of college is to make the social connections that will bring you wealth. And wealth can open the doors to the social connections.
To really maximize a guys attraction and effectiveness, he’s going to need a posse backing him. Connections. Friends in high and low places. He’s got to be able to get things done with a phone call, to magnetize around him a group of the talented, the powerful, the connected, the sporty, the rich, the funny.
I’m thinking of ways to mix business with creating a rat-pack team of guys who share business and lifestyle interests. The social aspect of game, and even just of manly comraderie for the sake of it, is something I’ve been neglecting, and I see now that it has great potential.
Prestige, access to pretty women, logistics, all of these can be had with business investments; for instance in night clubs, modeling agencies, tour guide services, resorts, and so on. But it can be even more powerful to mix a lifestyle aware business together with networking with other bros.
Long term game for men has infinitely more options than it does for women.
As long as you don’t think that game is only about your social charms.
I was just curious if anyone on here cared about what social class a girl comes from?
I will take a girl that has good manners, and comes from a good/wealthy family over a girl that is hotter but doesn’t have that going for her.
Anyone else feel the same way?
I used to think that I preferred self aware meditating women only. Then I realized that many of those have an unbearable neurotic burden and that meditating had no correlation to cheerfulness and easy companionship.
But I was still sure that I needed high intelligence. Until I saw that a woman with high intelligence is very smart at rationalizing crazy bullshit.
I’ve been with women of all classes and intelligence and education and meditation ability.
Number one is her affect. Is she cheerful? Is she easy to get along with?
Class doesn’t affect affect.
I don’t care if I find the girl in the trash can. If she makes me feel good, she’s good.
But after that, yes, all the other attributes weigh in. They are a minor consideration. I’d never choose or reject a woman based on the minor considerations only.
Oh, also it’s of benefit to me if the woman considers me above her station, and that I have way more money than she could expect to earn on her own. That’s just Having Hand 101. The expense of having this hand means nothing to me – making money is my job, and I do my job.
And don’t forget about the trade offs.
If your mate value score is 100 gold coins, how much of that do you want to spend on youth and beauty, and how much do you want to spend on class, intelligence, and a long background of wealth?
Let’s not kid ourselves, sexy debutantes are rare and have higher expectations than sexy trailer trash girls. Those are the top apples on the tree.
The apples lower down are more likely to look up to you, to cherish you, to treat you like a prize, like a king.
Ya, if I my mate value points were 10,000 gold coins, or if I could find a debutante who could be persuaded that it is, then a deb would look superior.
But given the choice between a deb who views me as low down on her hypergamous list and a trailer trash hottie who views me as way up on it, I’ll take the trailer trash hottie.
Or given the choice of an older and plainer middle class girl and a trailer trash hottie, I’ll take the hottie.
The coin that must be spent on class detracts from coin that can be spent on hotness.
Of course I’m working on increasing my coin, but I don’t believe that coin is all in the head – that everything boils down to confidence. I believe that’s a self hypnotic idea that is on par with a delusion – a psychosis even. You want to know what is a limiting belief? Reality is a limiting belief. There is an inter-subjective world of mate value rankings – and confidence plays only a part in that – it’s not the whole of the mate value ranking.
Update: What does a feminist call a man who is aware of female hypergamy? Intimidated by strength and independence.
He he – women are masters of puffing out clouds of dissimulating snark. If women were not always looking for men of higher station than them, men would prefer women of higher station. It’s the hypergamy that makes women with income less attractive – they are less likely to treat the man well if he earns less.
Update 2: We know that women tend to think first with emotion and rarely with math, so when they hear that most women want to date up, but most men don’t care if they date down, they rarely realize that this means that the more money they make, the smaller the pool of eligible men AND the larger the pool of women competing for these men. A 35 year old lawyer only wants to date an attractive man of greater means, but so do all the other women – including those who are hotter and younger. So why would Mr. Rich bother with Ms. Hypergamous? Because she’s a lawyer? Men don’t think like that. We’re happy to date the secretary, if she’s hot and feminine. Hypergamy means that women can’t have it all. It’s mathematically impossible. Hypergamy plus a high paying career = not enough high enough status men to go around therefore the choice for women is between career and a satisfying dating life. Women have no choice about only being emotionally satisfied with men who out earn them, and as they earn more, there are not enough available men (because men don’t restrict themselves to women of means), therefore if a woman wants to be satisfied with her mate, she has a greater chance of that if she earns less money.
But again, women think first with emotions, and rarely if ever with math.
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