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- Who is the richest person you know well?
- Female circuits of arousal
- Culture and cross-culture
- You can’t master a woman if you are aloof
- Melt into her to bind her to you
- If you desire an equal and worthy partner, you have lost.
- Men don’t realize they are feminists
- Do you love me?
- Intro to “tantric” sex
- How to be a succesful location independent net-preneur
- Listening to Pink Floyd teaches you how to fuck
- It’s not always about the confidence
- Game is not always sufficient, but it is always additive
- Liking spectator sports means you fall into social groups more easily, but are less of an iconoclast.
- Social skills needed to have friends
- The craft of poetry writing is the art of seduction
- Keep her constantly aroused with anchors
- Hypergamy as explained by a rare female with introspection
- Thermonuclear anger game: tactical rage
- Ultimately women drive all economic spending on status
- Marriage is not about the children, because of technology.
- Causation or correlation: women with higher partner counts divorce and cheat more
- Athol Kay says: Most Attraction Is Structural
- It’s ok to spend money on girls
- The value of the cold approach depends on your favored sexual lifestyle
- Chicks dig men who other chicks dig
- I started drinking at age 11, and loved it.
- Why I talk about alpha and beta ways
- Wanting to fit in can be a bit beta
- Women dig buff bodies
- Women dig wealth and power
- How to overcome the shame of arrogance and use ambition and the big-wig mindset to advantage
- Dealing with psychopathology
- Creative intensity
- Intensity of affect
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- There is a reason why money makes you confident
- False rape claims are common because of women’s primal instinct to demand provisioning
- Of kindergarten math, and defining domains of attraction, alpha, and admirable
- Not all of us have the option of being happy alone
- Adjusting to the facts of life
- When society agreed with Sean Connery
- What to demand from your woman?
- Merry Communist Season to all!
- Technologies that give men hand
- Reader asks for examples of making a girl hold a posture of loving you.
- Addition to blogroll: shrink4men.com
- Welcome to the Era of the Cad
- The 5 basic genetically encoded moral traits
- Morality is nothing but social manipulation
- Men value love, women love value.
- Nomadic temperaments?
- No one has ever made a case for marriage that moves my emotions.
- The Peter Pan principle vs the “real” alpha.
- If you are “busting a nut”, you are doing it wrong.
- Whisper in her left ear.
- So-cons hate on game because reality disgusts them.
- A fun emotional anchor for your room
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- Are men with the purity gene more apt to be beta?
- The human condition dictates that it’s near impossible to empathize with the enemy.
- Our busy-body brains don’t recognize large anonymous groups and think all individuals impact us personally.
- Women Orgasm More For Wealthy Men
- Inner game isn’t the entirety of game.
- Female virgins are not pure and innocent.
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- Should I awaken the burning serpent again?
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Mr. west said
just found u site. wow! ken wilber! edge! with stick thrown in for balance! ha
check out “asian muse” in stick?!
“Work and family as top priorities are sure signs of a diseased personality.”
really, tell us what u really think! ha. love u happiness blog! it is refreshing to see someone with a few actual facts in your back pocket.
no, not a girl!.
cheers
billycuts said
Really digging your site! Greets from the Nerdshit crew
Jan-Willem Bats said
Hey there,
I noticed you decided to link to my site, which I appreciate very much.
But could you change the link to Our Technological Future please?
The search engines like it better that way. Makes the link more valuable to me.
Nice blog you got here. I bookmarked ya.
Greetz,
Jay
Graham said
Great to read you writings about your adventures around women in Southeast Asia from an enlightened viewpoint. I love travelling over there but in my first few trips I kept away from the obvious folly of the sex tourism scene.
In my last trip I struck up a relationship with an educated Thai woman. What a trip. The Thai way is so different. Its a different world and I am still floundering around trying to work out how to deal with it. I love your description of lies in the Thai way. Face has such a priority over integrity and one has to accept that.
Still I have to admit, that as far as sexual energy is concerned then they certainly do have bucket loads of it. I am still staggering from the passion of it.
Graham
Marquis Fleur said
Hey G,
Haven’t seen a blog from you in a while. I regularly check for new posts – perhaps you’re busy extracting your domestically-retracted testes??
Great line in that last post – we all know the feeling!
I was also following the “Apostate” blog for a while, but have deleted it from my bookmarks – she’s taken on an aggressive, feminista, militant man-hating slant that has little grounding in reason. Not the kind of stuff I like to fill my precious, evolving neurons with.
Hope you’re well. Looking forward to the next blog.
xsplat said
Hi M. I have no idea why I have little creative urge lately. The brain isn’t as perky lately, not as frothy, not as greedy for fresh interconnections. Maybe my sedentary monogamous lifestyle has been catching up with me, causing testosterone levels to drop off, leaving me less impelled.
On the other hand, occasionally a blank non-attachment is the mood while resting half asleep, and the lack of strain is soothing. On the other hand, interesting dreams still come, and I ain’t lying down to die, so I assume blogging of some sort will re-arise.
Good to know the site gets visited occasionally other than by people googling for BDSM.
Legion said
Interesting stuff. Email sent to you.
Mr. C said
Hey there.
What the fuck is going on over at the Citizen Renegade blog?
Heartiste ? It’s all going downhill fast over there.
Where the hell is Roissy?
xsplat said
Ya, the articles aren’t all as high quality as in the blogs peak, but he still puts out good stuff regularly. That it was ever as good as it was was incredible, and that it remains as good as it does is still quite an achievement. One you’ll not find me replicating.
But the worse decline over there is in the comment section.