New focus
Posted by xsplat on February 23, 2013
I’m making some major life changes, and it’s affecting my interest to blog. This is for the better. One reason I’ve been active blogging is to vent a creative urge, to share experiences with other men, to be engaged in a social community.
But I’ve long known that the internet is not an adequate forum for getting ones social needs met.
So I’m working on magnetizing a community of like minded men towards working together on wealth and lifestyle building projects. So far it’s going well. And I’m finding that in person much more of what I am compelled to let out comes out – stories, new ideas – and better – in person interaction allows whole different levels of creative inspiration and fun. I’ve known this has been a lifestyle deficit for a while, and will be focusing my time and attention to this new direction; a direction of male cooperative effort within a sense of community. We are all going to be fucking rich and have regular access to attractive young women who consider us a syndicate of high value men. And we’ll have large balling villas, and boats for personal use and charter, and global connections, and on and on.
I think I’ve said most of what needed to be said here anyway. Time to focus on building up a much larger group of international business interests, pull together a tribe of inspired men, learn from them regarding areas of weakness I never noticed, and capitalize on my considerable areas of strengths to move us towards great personal and communal and lifestyle wealth, so that my own brand of game and my own sexual and lifestyle strategies are maximized. Forget cold approach – we’ll be making our businesses bring in the women and contacts to us. And more – I think a community of guys can offer more than just greater access to women.
yousowould said
Good stuff mate, sounds like you’re putting yourself a posse together, Jack Donovan style.
I’ve wanted to do something similar myself, but I just don’t know enough like minded people who are at a similar level of development to myself.
Is this with a bunch of dudes you already know in “real” life?
xsplat said
Ya, one of the guys joining our group sent me a link to a Jack Donovan interview; http://heathenharvest.org/2012/05/17/the-tactical-virtues-of-strength-courage-mastery-and-honor-the-jack-donovan-interview/
I’m carefully gathering the tribe through contacts made online. We’re discovering a great need for more interns, so we will be working to expand our recruitment efforts. This will be challenging as I require us to have similar lifestyle interests as well as all be unusually talented. Interns get all their living expenses paid until their commissions exceed their expenses. This works out much better than college in so many ways.
yousowould said
Sounds really interesting, keep us updated on how it goes.
I’ve always been more of a lone wolf myself, my own plans for financial independence are well underway – I should be able to retire by age 33 if I play my cards right (2 years to go), and with accelerating income.
xsplat said
Yes, I understand. I felt compelled to go the lone wolf route myself. I don’t think it was entirely about greed. I just wanted to be at the top of my own personal pyramid, even if it was just a pyramid of one.
But after a few decades of experience with that, I’m seeing the limitations of the go it alone approach. And even with just one intern here I’m already seeing things getting taken to a new level.
The corporate structure endures for a reason. The trick is to use the best motivation and organization structures from all enduring power structures; the mafia, corporations, syndicates, guilds, gangs, law firm partnerships and so on. People need motivation and inspiration and to feel like they belong to a useful group they are proud to associate with. It will certainly work out that together we will become more wealthy than working alone – and that counts even for the most talented among us, and even given the fact a big chunk of profits for the interns and partners will go towards the “corporation”, and not personal coffers.
Maybe I had to go it alone for decades. It was just something I had to do. Something I wanted to do.
But now it’s a different time, a different challenge. A different level.
BAVAVUM said
I will build my own empire. I shall build services for a wide range of industries.
Also xsplat, this is a very useful blog: http://wallstreetplayboys.com/
Johnny Caustic said
This all sounds very cool.
If you “think you’ve said most of what needed to be said here anyway,” may I politely suggest that you consider writing some summary posts. I’ve been slowly going through all your blog archives, taking lots of notes, and the details and examples of how you direct and dominate and encourage women are very useful. But sometimes it’s hard to see the big picture through the details, and I would love to hear a summary of what you think are the most essential and indispensable parts of setting up the proper relationship between you and your women.
And although you’ve only touched on it occasionally, I suspect that you are unusually embodied and present, and also unusually in touch with what’s going on in your women. I’m trying with difficulty to develop those traits in myself. Were there any big epiphanies in your development of that sensitivity? How important is meditation?
xsplat said
I’ve tried summaries from time to time. I’ve been asked for summaries often. The subject doesn’t lend itself to it.
Would you ask a math text book writer to please summarize math? The mathematical knowledge grows on the previous knowledge in a gradated fashion, and each years worth of teaching may have a different focus. You need to study all the pieces, and ony in your own mind can you create a big picture whole. You can’t then take that personal big picture whole and then transmit it all at once to another.
avd said
Amen.
walderschmidt said
Expect an email from me soon, I am of curious disposition.
t said
I second Johnny’s request, maybe not entirely with regards to summary, but the fact that what you say is somewhat invaluable and cannot really be found anywhere else. Do continue with LTR advice. Would also appreciate entrepreneurial advice. I understand you like to remain anonymous and don’t give your niches away, but again, you can add a lot of value to other men.
Now regarding the dream team, I would encourage you to read The Game by Neil Strauss if you haven’t done so already, not for the game advice or for his stories about the community, but about Project Hollywood. They were doing boot camps and kind of had a team together, staying together, gaming together, and slowly it turned ugly and fell apart, with internal politics, jealousy, etc.
With more hands and minds, there are many benefits, but there are also consequences if you are not ready to handle them. It can often be burdensome to deal with for someone who is used to being the lone wolf. That’s what happened to Mystery in the story, whether it is fiction or not, you can learn from it. With a group there are social dynamics at play, not just alpha, but relative alpha, as part of the male social matrix.
xsplat said
That’s interesting about company politics. Any suggestions on how to avoid company politics problems?
We are going to try to study other organizations to learn. Mafia, gangsters, corporations, guilds, law firms, ad firms, and so on. Such organizations can be enduring – through many generations. Really I’m at the point where the business model of me being the leader with everyone underneath me being an employee who must have their work managed by me is a bottleneck to growth. The only way to get a very large business endeavor that won’t suck me dry of any time and energy and attention is to include high level talent to new management positions, and to incentivize them with more than a guaranteed salary.
t said
Don’t have enough experience to give suggestions, but it’s not just about paying employees. You mentioned this will be a lifestyle thing as well. The things that usually break or weaken the bonds of brotherhood between men are money, power, and women. Initially, you are their mentor, their teacher, their sensei, and their paycheck, but you don’t want to eventually become the bald ugly old man who thinks he knows everything and always thinks he’s right and has to have his way. And you are no longer the white alpha male. Not sure where I am going with this, just thinking out loud. I initially thought it would be a great thing for business, and it probably is, but longer term there are a lot of factors coming into play
xsplat said
Ya, and it will be interesting to see how it works out being the ugliest and oldest and shortest in the group, when it comes to us rolling together to pick up girls. I’ve rolled with a tall buff young guy with model looks on Dead tour for a few seasons, and only once was there any spillover from all the attention he got.
You’re right that being the big wig high status guy in the group will be natural at first, and that’s something I’ll learn to enjoy and want to keep. Somehow that will have to be structured in. It is in most organizations.